Inside My Heart
Inside my heart there is a place
Reserved for only you.
It holds the joy you bring to me
And all the blessings, too.
I just wanted you to know
That it will always be.
A place where I will hold you near
And recall each memory.
Today I said a prayer for you
And thanked the Lord above.
For sending you to fill my heart
With so much joy and love
I hope that you will stay right here
And we never have to part.
But no matter what the future holds
You’ll still be in my heart.
Written & Submitted By:
© Karen Bunker
Music © Tom Moir
December 26, 2024 @ 3:38 am
When u feel u cannot look the world in the eye anymore…
December 11, 2024 @ 6:52 am
Can u help us Dr J?
Never thought in my wildest dreams that I will find myself in this situation 🫣
December 11, 2024 @ 6:50 am
My sister and I are in big trouble….and we have nowhere to turn to🫣
December 11, 2024 @ 1:55 am
…
December 9, 2024 @ 12:23 am
I am scared…
December 7, 2024 @ 3:05 am
Don’t know what’s happening….I feel I cant cope….but I thought that my Faith was unshakable🫣
December 1, 2024 @ 2:59 am
As time is approaching to the the trip date to visit our Father….it gets way too difficult in realising that I am NOT going and the tears are too much…….
November 29, 2024 @ 5:35 am
I am surrounded by FIRE and it is blazing and don’t understand how I am still standing
November 29, 2024 @ 3:06 am
I wish u were here
November 27, 2024 @ 2:44 am
A true friend isn’t measured by numbers but by a bond that lasts a lifetime.
November 22, 2024 @ 7:18 am
It’s ok if u don’t want to have anything to do with me…and make a dignified exit and apologise for contacting u
November 19, 2024 @ 1:50 am
I was feeling so down and thought I can ask U for some guidance but thought maybe it’s not a good idea
November 14, 2024 @ 11:48 am
It is my End…
November 7, 2024 @ 7:00 am
It was Murphy’s Law day today
But calmed down after reading :
Anyone who
prays, and
knows the
Lord is with
her/him , can never
be defeated.
November 4, 2024 @ 5:11 am
Yes…we are all HUMAN but have to try and be strong and NOT break especially when u hear about a close one contemplating suicide from another person🫣
It’s not easy to walk on FIRE but have to clutch to Father’s hand even more now and act brave
November 2, 2024 @ 11:15 pm
Sitting outside at my sister’s house and enjoying the gentle breeze and came across this
“In a world where you can be anything, be kind to yourself.” 🌈
Taking care of your mental health is just as important as caring for others. Remember, self-compassion is a strength, not a weakness. Treat yourself with the same love and understanding you offer to those around you.
You deserve kindness—especially from yourself!
Take hold of the hand of the Master, for without Him the way is full of untold dangers and difficulties. Never for a moment get separated from the Master and never place too much confidence in thy own valour or wisdom. – Rumi 🙏
October 31, 2024 @ 10:44 am
“It occurred to Pooh and Piglet that they hadn’t heard from Eeyore for several days, so they put on their hats and coats and trotted across the Hundred Acre Wood to Eeyore’s stick house. Inside the house was Eeyore.
“Hello Eeyore,” said Pooh.
“Hello Pooh. Hello Piglet,” said Eeyore, in a Glum Sounding Voice.
“We just thought we’d check in on you,” said Piglet, “because we hadn’t heard from you, and so we wanted to know if you were okay.”
Eeyore was silent for a moment. “Am I okay?” he asked, eventually. “Well, I don’t know, to be honest. Are any of us really okay? That’s what I ask myself. All I can tell you, Pooh and Piglet, is that right now I feel really rather Sad, and Alone, and Not Much Fun To Be Around At All. Which is why I haven’t bothered you. Because you wouldn’t want to waste your time hanging out with someone who is Sad, and Alone, and Not Much Fun To Be Around At All, would you now.”
Pooh looked and Piglet, and Piglet looked at Pooh, and they both sat down, one on either side of Eeyore in his stick house.
Eeyore looked at them in surprise. “What are you doing?”
“We’re sitting here with you,” said Pooh, “because we are your friends. And true friends don’t care if someone is feeling Sad, or Alone, or Not Much Fun To Be Around At All. True friends are there for you anyway. And so here we are.”
“Oh,” said Eeyore. “Oh.” And the three of them sat there in silence, and while Pooh and Piglet said nothing at all; somehow, almost imperceptibly, Eeyore started to feel a very tiny little bit better.
Because Pooh and Piglet were There. No more; no less.”
October 29, 2024 @ 9:38 am
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Inside My Heart
Inside my heart there is a place
Reserved for only you.
It holds the joy you bring to me
And all the blessings, too.
I just wanted you to know
That it will always be.
A place where I will hold you near
And recall each memory.
Today I said a prayer for you
And thanked the Lord above.
For sending you to fill my heart
With so much joy and love
I hope that you will stay right here
And we never have to part.
But no matter what the future holds
You’ll still be in my heart.
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© Karen Bunker
Music © Tom Moir
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Anyuta
October 24, 2024 @ 8:20 am
When I Die -Jalaluddin Rumi
When I die, when my coffin is being taken out, you must never think I am missing this world
Don’t shed any tears,don’t lament or feel sorry, I’m not falling into a monster’s abyss
When you see my corpse is being carried, don’t cry for my leaving, I’m not leaving, I’m arriving at eternal love.
When you leave me in the grave don’t say goodbye, remember a grave is only a curtain for the paradise behind.
You’ll only see me descending into a grave, now see me rise. How can there be an end when the sun sets or the moon goes down
It looks like the end, it seems like a sunset but in reality it is a dawn when the grave locks you up, that is when your soul is freed
Have you ever seen a seed fallen to earth , not rise with a new life,why should you doubt the rise of a seed named human?
Have you ever seen a bucket lowered into a welcoming back empty? Why lament for a soul when it can come back like Joseph from the well?
When for the last time you close your mouth your words and soul will belong to the world of no place no time.
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Anyuta
September 27, 2024 @ 4:31 am
♏💟♈ *I don’t mind what happens. That is the essence of inner freedom. It is a timeless spiritual truth: release attachment to outcomes, deep inside yourself, you’ll feel good no matter what…!!*
💫💖✍🏻 Many thanks to the author 🙏
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Anyuta
September 23, 2024 @ 10:52 am
Opinion is the medium between knowledge and ignorance…
🤎//🤎//🤎
Hey Dr J
Not sure who or what this applies to or mean but realised that I have crossed my limits by confiding in you. I APOLOGISE!!!
I kinda understand!!! So no hard feelings and I will give u total space. Take care
Take care
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Anyuta
September 8, 2024 @ 2:51 am
No matter how one understands in theory that u have to rise above everything happening around U, sometimes it gets very hectic to handle cos we are unfortunately only human hey!]
My bro means the world to me but we both always never agreed in business matters. He is extremely intelligent and about the best person I know but unfortunately many people took advantage of him. Well, I have no idea why so many people of the church are in talks with him about all his personal matters. And as I said , he does what he wants and I just keep quiet and don’t make matters worse.
Yesterday he told me that he met this gujji guy who is NOT my favorite person but have no idea what the hell is happening…..why all this is happening….I feel like I’m walking on FIRE so to speak😆
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Anyuta
September 5, 2024 @ 10:07 am
HAPPY TEACHERS DAY DR J !
Gurur Brahma, Gurur Vishnu, Gurur Devo Maheshawara, Guru Saakshaata Parabrahma Tasmai, Shri Guruve Namah.. Without you, we would have been lost, Thank you teacher for guiding us, inspiring us & making us what we are today. “The aim of education is not aquisition of information, although important, or aquisition of technical skills, though essential in modern society; but the development of that bent of mind, the attitude of reason, that spirit of democracy, which will make us responsible citizens.” S Radhakrishnan. Happy Teachers Day! Celebrate Teachers Day everyday & stay blessed always !
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Anyuta
September 2, 2024 @ 4:33 am
My aunt is finding it difficult to accept a new Master nominated. I just told her that even if we only understand in THEORY only…
The MASTER is the SHABD so we NEVER lose HIM….
So rise above all this drama and ACCEPT this news and accept everything in general as it all comes from HIM!
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Anyuta
August 31, 2024 @ 12:34 pm
WHEN TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME
When tomorrow starts without me, And I’m not there to see, The sun will rise and light the skies, Just as it used to be.
But know that I’m still with you, in every gentle breeze, in whispers of the morning dew, and rustling of the trees.
Though you may feel the sorrow, and tears may fill your eyes, remember all our yesterdays, And let love be your guide.
For every time you think of me, I’m right there in your heart, our bond is everlasting, even though we are apart.
So when tomorrow starts without me, don’t think we’re truly through, for every moment, every breath, I’ll be there, loving you.
-Unknown
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Anyuta
August 25, 2024 @ 7:38 am
Hey Dr J…hope all is well. Was wondering if u are out of the country, not well or busy….what is it?
Don’t want to cross my limits so U don’t have to reply. .was just thinking aloud😀
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Anyuta
August 20, 2024 @ 11:04 am
“Piglet?” said Pooh.
“Yes?” said Piglet.
“I’m scared,” said Pooh.
For a moment, there was silence.
“Would you like to talk about it?” asked Piglet, when Pooh didn’t appear to be saying anything further.
“I’m just so scared,” blurted out Pooh.
“So anxious. Because I don’t feel like things are getting any better. If anything, I feel like they might be getting worse. People are angry, because they’re so scared, and they’re turning on one another, and there seems to be no clear plan out of here, and I worry about my friends and the people I love, and I wish SO much that I could give them all a hug, and oh, Piglet! I am so scared, and I cannot tell you how much I wish it wasn’t so.”
Piglet was thoughtful, as he looked out at the blue of the skies, peeping between the branches of the trees in the Hundred Acre Wood, and listened to his friend.
“I’m here,” he said, simply. “I hear you, Pooh. And I’m here.”
For a moment, Pooh was perplexed.
“But… aren’t you going to tell me not to be so silly? That I should stop getting myself into a state and pull myself together? That it’s hard for everyone right now?”
“No,” said Piglet, quite decisively. “No, I am very much not going to do any of those things.”
“But – ” said Pooh.
“I can’t change the world right now,” continued Piglet. “And I am not going to patronise you with platitudes about how everything will be okay, because I don’t know that.
“What I can do, though, Pooh, is that I can make sure that you know that I am here. And that I will always be here, to listen; and to support you; and for you to know that you are heard.
“I can’t make those Anxious Feelings go away, not really. But I can promise you that, all the time I have breath left in my body…you won’t ever need to feel those Anxious Feelings alone.”
And it was a strange thing, because even as Piglet said that, Pooh could feel some of those Anxious Feelings start to loosen their grip on him and could feel one or two of them start to slither away into the forest, cowed by his friend, who sat there stolidly next to him.
Pooh thought he had never been more grateful to have Piglet in his life.
October 24, 2024 @ 8:20 am
When I Die -Jalaluddin Rumi
When I die, when my coffin is being taken out, you must never think I am missing this world
Don’t shed any tears,don’t lament or feel sorry, I’m not falling into a monster’s abyss
When you see my corpse is being carried, don’t cry for my leaving, I’m not leaving, I’m arriving at eternal love.
When you leave me in the grave don’t say goodbye, remember a grave is only a curtain for the paradise behind.
You’ll only see me descending into a grave, now see me rise. How can there be an end when the sun sets or the moon goes down
It looks like the end, it seems like a sunset but in reality it is a dawn when the grave locks you up, that is when your soul is freed
Have you ever seen a seed fallen to earth , not rise with a new life,why should you doubt the rise of a seed named human?
Have you ever seen a bucket lowered into a welcoming back empty? Why lament for a soul when it can come back like Joseph from the well?
When for the last time you close your mouth your words and soul will belong to the world of no place no time.
September 27, 2024 @ 4:31 am
♏💟♈
*I don’t mind what happens. That is the essence of inner freedom. It is a timeless spiritual truth: release attachment to outcomes, deep inside yourself, you’ll feel good no matter what…!!*
💫💖✍🏻
Many thanks to the author 🙏
September 23, 2024 @ 10:52 am
Opinion is the medium between knowledge and ignorance…
🤎//🤎//🤎
Hey Dr J
Not sure who or what this applies to or mean but realised that I have crossed my limits by confiding in you. I APOLOGISE!!!
I kinda understand!!! So no hard feelings and I will give u total space. Take care
Take care
September 8, 2024 @ 2:51 am
No matter how one understands in theory that u have to rise above everything happening around U, sometimes it gets very hectic to handle cos we are unfortunately only human hey!]
My bro means the world to me but we both always never agreed in business matters. He is extremely intelligent and about the best person I know but unfortunately many people took advantage of him. Well, I have no idea why so many people of the church are in talks with him about all his personal matters. And as I said , he does what he wants and I just keep quiet and don’t make matters worse.
Yesterday he told me that he met this gujji guy who is NOT my favorite person but have no idea what the hell is happening…..why all this is happening….I feel like I’m walking on FIRE so to speak😆
September 5, 2024 @ 10:07 am
HAPPY TEACHERS DAY DR J !
Gurur Brahma, Gurur Vishnu, Gurur Devo Maheshawara, Guru Saakshaata Parabrahma Tasmai, Shri Guruve Namah.. Without you, we would have been lost, Thank you teacher for guiding us, inspiring us & making us what we are today. “The aim of education is not aquisition of information, although important, or aquisition of technical skills, though essential in modern society; but the development of that bent of mind, the attitude of reason, that spirit of democracy, which will make us responsible citizens.” S Radhakrishnan. Happy Teachers Day! Celebrate Teachers Day everyday & stay blessed always !
September 2, 2024 @ 4:33 am
My aunt is finding it difficult to accept a new Master nominated.
I just told her that even if we only understand in THEORY only…
The MASTER is the SHABD so we NEVER lose HIM….
So rise above all this drama and
ACCEPT this news and accept everything in general as it all comes from HIM!
August 31, 2024 @ 12:34 pm
WHEN TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME
When tomorrow starts without me, And I’m not there to see, The sun will rise and light the skies, Just as it used to be.
But know that I’m still with you, in every gentle breeze, in whispers of the morning dew, and rustling of the trees.
Though you may feel the sorrow, and tears may fill your eyes, remember all our yesterdays, And let love be your guide.
For every time you think of me, I’m right there in your heart, our bond is everlasting, even though we are apart.
So when tomorrow starts without me, don’t think we’re truly through, for every moment, every breath, I’ll be there, loving you.
-Unknown
August 25, 2024 @ 7:38 am
Hey Dr J…hope all is well. Was wondering if u are out of the country, not well or busy….what is it?
Don’t want to cross my limits so
U don’t have to reply. .was just thinking aloud😀
August 20, 2024 @ 11:04 am
“Piglet?” said Pooh.
“Yes?” said Piglet.
“I’m scared,” said Pooh.
For a moment, there was silence.
“Would you like to talk about it?” asked Piglet, when Pooh didn’t appear to be saying anything further.
“I’m just so scared,” blurted out Pooh.
“So anxious. Because I don’t feel like things are getting any better. If anything, I feel like they might be getting worse. People are angry, because they’re so scared, and they’re turning on one another, and there seems to be no clear plan out of here, and I worry about my friends and the people I love, and I wish SO much that I could give them all a hug, and oh, Piglet! I am so scared, and I cannot tell you how much I wish it wasn’t so.”
Piglet was thoughtful, as he looked out at the blue of the skies, peeping between the branches of the trees in the Hundred Acre Wood, and listened to his friend.
“I’m here,” he said, simply. “I hear you, Pooh. And I’m here.”
For a moment, Pooh was perplexed.
“But… aren’t you going to tell me not to be so silly? That I should stop getting myself into a state and pull myself together? That it’s hard for everyone right now?”
“No,” said Piglet, quite decisively. “No, I am very much not going to do any of those things.”
“But – ” said Pooh.
“I can’t change the world right now,” continued Piglet. “And I am not going to patronise you with platitudes about how everything will be okay, because I don’t know that.
“What I can do, though, Pooh, is that I can make sure that you know that I am here. And that I will always be here, to listen; and to support you; and for you to know that you are heard.
“I can’t make those Anxious Feelings go away, not really. But I can promise you that, all the time I have breath left in my body…you won’t ever need to feel those Anxious Feelings alone.”
And it was a strange thing, because even as Piglet said that, Pooh could feel some of those Anxious Feelings start to loosen their grip on him and could feel one or two of them start to slither away into the forest, cowed by his friend, who sat there stolidly next to him.
Pooh thought he had never been more grateful to have Piglet in his life.
August 19, 2024 @ 8:45 am
Mom just called. Said the assistant lady in charge called and changed menu to Cauliflower…and I told her…who in their right mind will eat that? Everyone will skip lunch🤣
And my Mom likes to do things by the book and says that we are there in sewa to take instruction and become humble if possible 😅
Anyways, Nimmi said that U informed them that only 4 members are allowed in cooking teamto be part of cooking team so I removed myself in order for the others in family.
I can just chill at home and have Pasta and Coke 💃
August 19, 2024 @ 5:48 am
Hope u r doing well Dr J!
Today is Raksha Bandhan so sisters tie a string on brothers wrist and we give them some sweetmeat and I love all this and even light the lamp like the Indians do and play Raksha Bandhan music as well.
Now I live in a house of people who Meditate alot and from the time we were growing up we
always got scolded by moms brothers for playing music and making noise.
My mom’s big brother has a hearing problem but asked me to put music softer when we are celebrating. I listened to him and walked away cos don’t want to make anything awkward for Mom.
I understand that NONE of us are perfect and cannot be like the Master but how come everyone acts so self righteous and bully others?
I told Mom that her family does NOT understand that the Master expects us to rise above everything, noise , the weather, etc. And He expects us to find Silence within as our Path is am INWARD path.
We cannot go around scolding everyone and silencing people and act like the Master wishes that. Mom says that I must FORGIVE cos they are typical INDIAN men who feel whatever they say is right and better to stay quiet which is very easy for her but I battle bigtime! Even if I don’t tell them off I get very upset but I’m learning to calm myself slowly.
At least when we are in dera , we are free and happy💃
August 17, 2024 @ 7:37 am
Disciples face a mind which whispers to them: “This meditation of yours is so pathetic, your concentration is so useless, you should give this up.” Taking advice from the mind about meditation is like asking a criminal what sentence he deserves. We should tell the mind that since it did the crime, now it must serve the time. Every bit of effort is worthwhile; Master never complains about quality – he just begs us to put in the quantity. Great Master also says: “This body is a shop where we have to purchase Nam.”
There is shopping in the mall and shopping online, but for the saints the most valuable shop has always been inside the human body. If we can achieve ‘gold’ status as a frequent meditator, then ultimately we will get access to the premium lounge located in the human body at Gate 10 – also called the Eye Centre lounge. In that lounge, they are serving nectar which will satisfy our thirst forever and they are playing the enrapturing melodies of Shabd endlessly which will thoroughly soothe our bodies and our minds. It is worth dying while living to experience the rewards of the Master’s loyalty scheme.
You are quite right when you say that the Master rewards disciples according to the amount of effort they put in with the proper attitude. The more we strive on the path, the more help we receive from the Master. Those who do not make an effort of their own have no idea of the blessings that are being showered on us every day of our life. The rewards that are received by a disciple are far greater than one could ever expect or even dream of, and this realization comes only when we are doing our part of the duty. Then our heart is full of gratitude to the Master. Those who do not do their best in the spiritual practice and in living the life according to the high principles of Sant Mat belong to a class of sluggards who keep on expecting everything from the other party. Sloth has never achieved anything in any field of life.
Maharaj Charan Singh, Quest for Light
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August 16, 2024 @ 3:13 pm
Once there were two boys named John and James. They were best friends. They usually fought for various reasons. They disagreed in lots of things. But they never left each other. They were such good friends that they searched for jobs together and travelled to several places. They went to various cities together. They also went to towns, villages, forests, sea beaches and deserts. They always supported each other in life.
One day, John and James went to a desert. They walked for hours, and eventually, they got tired. But alas! They were left with very little water and food. Both of them were thirsty and hungry. So, James said, “we should at least drink some water. I am very thirsty.” But John disagreed with James. He wanted to save the remaining food and water.
So, they started to quarrel with each other. Suddenly, John got very angry and slapped James for misbehaving with him. But James said nothing. He wrote on the sand, “My best friend John slapped me today!”
They started to walk again. After hours of walking, John and James saw an oasis. They were very happy to see water in the middle of that desert. So they decided to take a bath and have some fun together.
James was a little careless. Suddenly, John saw that James was drowning. So, John rushed to him and saved James. James was so grateful to John for saving his life that he hugged John and thanked him for saving his life. “Thank you so much for saving my life and being my best friend,” James said to John.
Later they took a little nap and then decided to start walking again. When they were about to leave the place, James found a stone and carved on it, “My best friend John saved my life today.”
John was very happy to see James’s sweet gesture. James said to John, “I carved that you slapped me on the sand because I knew the wind would have blown it away. But you saved my life this time, and I carved it on the rock because I know it will remain on the stone forever.”
August 16, 2024 @ 3:01 pm
We all have a bag.
We all pack differently.
Some of us are traveling light.
Some of us are secret hoarders who’ve never parted with a memory in our lives.
I think we are all called to figure out how to carry our bag to the best of our ability, how to unpack it, and how to face the mess. I think part of growing up is learning how to sit down the floor with all your things and figuring out what to take with you and what to leave behind.—Hannah Brencher / Power of Word 🌟
August 14, 2024 @ 12:27 pm
“Say, Pooh, why aren’t you busy?” I said.
“Because it’s a nice day,” said Pooh.
“Yes, but —”
“Why ruin it?” he said.
“But you could be doing something Important,” I said.
“I am, ” said Pooh.
“Oh? Doing what?”
“Listening,” he said.
“Listening to what?”
“To the birds. And that squirrel over there.”
“What are they saying?” I asked.
“That it’s a nice day,” said Pooh.
“But you know that already,” I said.
“Yes, but it’s always good to hear that somebody else thinks so, too,” he replied..
Stop and take time to listen today! It’s a beautiful day!
🤍💓❣️💖💕❤️
August 13, 2024 @ 11:37 am
Why is it today that I battled so much, I asked myself???
Well, the problem is that we only see what we have to pass through and not what we have been spared hey according to HIM.
August 13, 2024 @ 2:07 am
A life without love is of no account
•Shams Of Tabriz
A life without love is of no account. Don’t ask yourself what kind of love you should seek, spiritual or material, divine or mundane, eastern or western…divisions only lead to more divisions. Love has no labels, no definitions. It is what it is, pure and simple. Love is the water of life. And a lover is a soul of fire! The universe turns differently when fire loves water.
Shams Of Tabriz♥️♥️♥️
August 12, 2024 @ 1:14 am
A good read… What is friendship? Life asked.
It means not speaking badly about that person even if they are not there, said loyalty.
It’s staying with her through thick and thin, said attachment.
It is speaking clearly and without lies, said sincerity.
It’s laughing with that person and crying with them when you need to, said the feeling.
It is knowing that she is with you even with her eyes closed, said confidence.
It’s missing her when she goes on a trip and being happy to see her again, I mention the memory.
It is to wish that it is always well, said the wish.
It’s giving you a hand when you need it, said the support.
It’s taking a deep breath when you make a mistake, said patience.
It’s not knowing me, said betrayal.
It is knowing how to forgive when necessary, said forgiveness.
She is the one who is with you in life, accompanies you in your illness, and cries in your agony, said death.
It is loving each other, love answered. That and more, much more… is Friendship!
“My best friend is the one who brings out the best in me.”
“Friends are the family you choose.” …
True friendship It comes when silence between two people is comfortable. 😇
August 11, 2024 @ 10:41 pm
Good Morning Dr J !
Let us all enjoy and savour the time we have left here on earth regardless of what’s happening around us
Williams writes:
“What is REAL?” asked the Rabbit one day, when they were lying side by side near the nursery fender, before Nana came to tidy the room. “Does it mean having things that buzz inside you and a stick-out handle?” “Real isn’t how you are made,” said the Skin Horse. “It’s a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become REAL.” Oh, I just love this next part:
“Does it hurt?” asked the Rabbit. “Sometimes,” said the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful. “When you are Real you don’t mind being hurt.” “Does it happen all at once, like being wound up,” he asked, “or bit by bit?” “It doesn’t happen all at once,” said the Skin Horse. “You become. It takes a long time. That’s why it doesn’t often happen to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept. Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don’t matter at all, because once you are Real you can’t be ugly, except to people who don’t understand.” ❤️ 💙 💜
August 11, 2024 @ 10:10 am
“The power of thoughts can either cause you illness or recovery” ~Ibn Sina
Kudos to the above author!!!
And the best weight to lose is the weight of everyone’s view of U hey!
I am at the stage where my life is NOT perfect but I am very happy!
💃
Take care
August 11, 2024 @ 9:34 am
For an ordinary gal like me I reek with confidence when I think about the guy I care for,,,
I don’t know, Why I am NOT afraid to lose him hey…..Cos ….I know within my heart that we actually are one. Amen! 💃
August 10, 2024 @ 2:03 pm
When
The violin
Can forgive the past
It starts singing.
When the violin can stop worrying
About the future
You will become
Such a drunk laughing nuisance
That God
Will then lean down
And start combing you into
His
Hair.
When the violin can forgive
Every Wound caused by
Others
The heart starts
Singing.- Hafiz 🌟
“Some days you will be the light for others, and some days you will need some light from them
As long as there is light, there is hope, and there is a way.”
August 9, 2024 @ 3:02 am
I don’t know how tired you are. Everything feels really tiring. You don’t even understand yourself sometimes; you just know that there is something wrong with you, but nobody notices it. You don’t know what to do just to bring back your excitement to life. You needed help, but you stayed silent. All along, you were not okay, but you kept it all inside.
Sometimes, you wake up feeling nothing. You feel like living is suffering. Sometimes you feel so empty, while other times you feel like your heart is tearing apart. It’s not easy to live like
It’s hard to lie to yourself every day that you are going to be alright. The truth is, all your hopes are already gone after so long. You live, but you feel like a dead person inside. And sometimes, you wish everything would just come to an end.
STAY ALIVE, BETTER DAYS AHEAD 🌺
ABOVE IS A SNIPPET OF SOMETHING I READ WHICH caught my eye!
PS: We share a strong bond and will always have each other’s back 💃
August 6, 2024 @ 5:19 am
Hey Dr J…hope u are doing well
Just read an article on net about the importance of not chasing someone who’s not chasing U which I totally agree with!
However, I get highly confused as where the source of msgs comes from. I mean that U R anonymous and could not help just wondering why would U write that kind of msg cos I’m certainly NOT chasing anyone.
U have to bear with my limited understanding or aptitude level as I’m just a below average girl who finds it extremely difficult to comprehend alot in life as I cannot keep up so to speak.
Anyways, undoubtedly we do share a strong bond hey….take care
August 5, 2024 @ 10:50 am
Dontknowwhatsgoingon!JustgotacallfromNimmi.SheaskedmeiftheheadofkitchenaskedusforalistofnamesforcookingteamasUareveryupsetwithtoomanypeopleinourteam🙄
Iamwillingtocomeoutofthe4thweekcookingteamandnotupsetaboutitatall.andsofartheheadofkitchendidnotaskusforlistofnamesforcookingteamashealreadyhasthenamesIguess.Nimmiaskedmomonourlastturnifshecancomeandassistandmomsaidyes.andshewarnedusnottoencouragechandrikatojoinusasuguysareallocatingchandrikaonthe1stweekwithaunttulsi,sathietc.iamconfusedwhyweareinallthistroubleaschandrikawantedtojoinourteamandmumtoldhertocheckwithheadofkitchenaswehaveenoughpeople.nimmiisveryupsetwithUfordiscardingaunttulsiasshelovescookinganduarenotcompassionatetotheold.momheardtheentireconverstationcosiwasonspeakerphoneandsaidthatUprobablyaskedAunttulsitotakeabreakcosUareconcernedabouthersafetyandmaybetheycannotseefromthatperspectivesodontallowallthesestoriestoaffectmeandnothingispersonal,urllarejustdoingullssewadutyastherehastobeorder.sorryforbabblingallthistoU,justthoughtushouldknowthatsomepeoplearemisunderstandungandassumingthataunttulsiistreatedshabbily.iamnotwellenoughtocopewithallthesestoriesandhavenoproblemofsteppingdownfromcookingteamaswearetoomanyintheteam.andrememberthatImcoolwiththis!take care
August 5, 2024 @ 8:31 am
It occurred to Pooh and Piglet that they hadn’t heard from Eeyore for several days, so they put on their hats and coats and trotted across the Hundred Acre Wood to Eeyore’s house. Inside the house was Eeyore.
“Hello Eeyore,” said Pooh.
“Hello Pooh. Hello Piglet” said Eeyore, in a Glum sounding voice.
“We just thought we’d check on you,” said Piglet, “because we hadn’t heard from you, and so we wanted to know if you were okay.”
Eeyore was silent for a moment. “Am I okay?” he asked, eventually. “Well, I don’t know, to be honest. Are any of us really okay? That’s what I ask myself. All I can tell you, Pooh and Piglet, is that right now I feel really rather Sad, and Alone, and Not Much Fun To Be Around At All.
Which is why I haven’t bothered you. Because you wouldn’t want to waste your time hanging out with someone who is Sad, and Alone, and Not Much Fun To Be Around At All, would you now.”
Pooh looked and Piglet, and Piglet looked at Pooh, and they both sat down, one on either side of Eeyore in his stick house.
Eeyore looked at them in surprise. “What are you doing?”
“We’re sitting here with you,” said Pooh, “because we are your friends. And true friends don’t care if someone is feeling Sad, or Alone, or Not Much Fun To Be Around At All. True friends are there for you anyway. And so here we are.”
“Oh,” said Eeyore. “Oh.” And the three of them sat there in silence, and while Pooh and Piglet said nothing at all; somehow, almost imperceptibly, Eeyore started to feel a very tiny little bit better.
Because Pooh and Piglet were There.
No more; no less.
Author – AA Milne
HappyFriendshipdayFriendsTogetherForever
August 3, 2024 @ 2:54 am
Nobody is good….Nobody is bad. Everyone is on the stage just playing their part in the grand play of life. …..and everyone is POWERLESS to do otherwise hey!
All we can do is improve ourselves without getting distracted by other peoples roles in the play.
Sergio Marquina was my favourite character in the series but that does not mean that I am smart like him etc.
I fully understand and appreciate that Sergio is the smartest actor in the series.
However, we learn alot from the series. We all are HOSTAGES in this world and we are certainly NOT perfect but have a Perfect Master who is our Professor who is the director of the play and know we can count on HIM.
The Professor (Sergio Marquina) is a fictional character in the Netflix series Money Heist, portrayed by Álvaro Morte.[1] He is the mastermind of the heist who assembled the group, as well as Berlin’s brother.
July 29, 2024 @ 1:11 pm
Evening Greetings Dr J!
It is wrong on my part to get too comfortable with U and just rambling away….Yes, I apolgise!
Before anyone starts misunderstanding me so much that they start feeling great by insulting me , they must remember that I may be an ordinary girl but have a very powerful Father behind me who loves me to bits!
I understand that U want be gone….as in today but that’s not possible ….but I will go.
Your dream will be realised….for the skylark to stop singing and dissappear.
I still like to remember U as someone that I trust and respect so let’s stop communicating on a good note ! 🙏
July 27, 2024 @ 9:59 am
Silence is not empty, it’s full of answers..
Rise up_
Lovely saying and one can literally read between the lines hey 💃
Well, just to share another SILENCE story. The S.I.C. of the kitchen addressed us all regarding SILENCE expected from us as U have raised this issue that there is lots of noise which I would say makes perfect sense.
However, I would like to add that my Mom is certainly NOT noisy or my family members. But I differ from them. I am like the noisy Durban Indian gang and APOLOGISE for being noisy in the past as I adhered to your rule today.
Anyways, regardless of how badly behaved u think I am, when we die we both will be just dust hey and we have a strong bond cos we share the same Powerful and Loving Father who loves us to the Moon and Back hey!
U take care of yourself…and let us all just CHILL….cos life is short and we could be having the last conversation as any one of us can stop breathing anytime!
Peace and Love❤️
July 27, 2024 @ 9:18 am
U missed out on the yummy Biryani Dr J….but at the end of the day I have to Respect your choice hey!
July 26, 2024 @ 8:19 am
ApologiesforanyrequestsDrJ!
JusttoletUknowthatIwillbeleavingthisplacesoon.
July 22, 2024 @ 5:00 am
Need your help as we are in Big trouble!
I have NOT personally met U and won’t want ro put u in an awkward situation but somehow i feel it’s easier to request online and won’t be able to ask anyone for help otherwise!
I have no expectation of U helping but I have no choice and would rather die than request help
July 14, 2024 @ 8:33 am
On a lighter. . .loving note!
~ It’s the wholeness of love that lives in the emptiness of every being to love,to long, to dream,to hope – And above all to forgive all that’s loved for in the eyes of love, there is nothing that’s not love !!
~ Misna Chanu ~
**There is no great genius without some touch of madness*** Aristotle
July 13, 2024 @ 12:58 pm
Family time….Fun time now.
Watching Kabhi Kushi Kabhi Gham with Mom and sisters and enjoying Chandni Chowks very own Kajol who assumes that SRK is her friends boyfriend and busy delivering her couplets🤣
He just promised his dad that he will NOT bring shame to his family but now gets himself in a hot soup by falling for a girl from Chandni Chowk. Ab ayegaa Mazaa🤣🤣🤣
July 13, 2024 @ 10:01 am
Mom said to me this now that IT’S NONE OF UR business what’s happening at Church area as they have people allocated to guide people.
So I need to BACK OFF and not COMMENT…even if I’m commenting just at home…it is WRONG!
July 11, 2024 @ 12:23 pm
[i Carry Your Heart With Me(i Carry It In]
E.E. CummingsBy E.E. Cummings
More E.E. Cummings
i carry your heart with me(i carry it in
my heart)i am never without it(anywhere
i go you go,my dear;and whatever is done
by only me is your doing,my darling)
i fear
no fate(for you are my fate,my sweet)i want
no world(for beautiful you are my world,my true)
and it’s you are whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing is you
here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud
and the sky of the sky of a tree called life;which grows
higher than soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that’s keeping the stars apart
i carry your heart(i carry it in my heart)
Take care my Friend🌹
July 9, 2024 @ 2:24 pm
“Piglet?” said Pooh.
“Yes?” said Piglet.
“I’m scared,” said Pooh.
For a moment, there was silence.
“Would you like to talk about it?” asked Piglet, when Pooh didn’t appear to be saying anything further.
“I’m just so scared,” blurted out Pooh.
“So anxious. Because I don’t feel like things are getting any better. If anything, I feel like they might be getting worse. People are angry, because they’re so scared, and they’re turning on one another, and there seems to be no clear plan out of here, and I worry about my friends and the people I love, and I wish SO much that I could give them all a hug, and oh, Piglet! I am so scared, and I cannot tell you how much I wish it wasn’t so.”
Piglet was thoughtful, as he looked out at the blue of the skies, peeping between the branches of the trees in the Hundred Acre Wood, and listened to his friend.
“I’m here,” he said, simply. “I hear you, Pooh. And I’m here.”
For a moment, Pooh was perplexed.
“But… aren’t you going to tell me not to be so silly? That I should stop getting myself into a state and pull myself together? That it’s hard for everyone right now?”
“No,” said Piglet, quite decisively. “No, I am very much not going to do any of those things.”
“But – ” said Pooh.
“I can’t change the world right now,” continued Piglet. “And I am not going to patronize you with platitudes about how everything will be okay because I don’t know that.
“What I can do, though, Pooh, is that I can make sure that you know that I am here. And that I will always be here, to listen; and to support you; and for you to know that you are heard.
“I can’t make those Anxious Feelings go away, not really.
“But I can promise you that, all the time I have breath left in my body…you won’t ever need to feel those Anxious Feelings alone.”
And it was a strange thing, because even as Piglet said that, Pooh could feel some of those Anxious Feelings start to loosen their grip on him and could feel one or two of them start to slither away into the forest, cowed by his friend, who sat there stolidly next to him.
Pooh thought he had never been more grateful to have Piglet in his life.
July 8, 2024 @ 9:10 am
Lovely quotes which can help ME improve.
“It is Love that holds everything together. and it is the everything also” ~Rumi
Not all wounds are visible.
Please walk gently in and through the lives of others!
July 6, 2024 @ 3:42 am
It’s just that it’s difficult for me to believe that anything is REAL in this world which we are told by Father is an illusion☺️ and I talk to someone with so many names….I cannot count. I live in my very own planet hey….I am the chosen one to have a true anonymous friend🧡
July 6, 2024 @ 3:36 am
REAL CHEMISTRY IS RARE, REAL LOVE IS RARE, REAL SUPPORT IS RARE. REAL FRIENDSHIP IS RARE. REAL IS RARE, IF YOU FIND IT, KEEP IT.
July 4, 2024 @ 12:16 pm
APOLOGIES!
Just FORGET everything that I just blabbered about…..it was a mistake and wrong. I must rather just write it down to get over all this….Delete and forget!
July 4, 2024 @ 11:38 am
There is WAR going on here. My Mom’s family is acting like the person who allendgely pushed my uncle is a criminal and they want to charge him when there is no evidence and angry with my brother for making an appointment with a physciatrist for my uncle as he does not seem well which will not hurt him in any way but now we are in trouble🤣
Don’t know if this is tragedy or Comedy🤣🤣🤣
July 4, 2024 @ 4:19 am
…don’t want to gatecrash the family reunion hey…..I am an outsider cos I don’t even know about decisions in the place that I live in.
Mom always tells me that when U are with the Indians U forget your own family…..but when Mom is with her family she forgot about her daughter🤣🤣
From the time I enter India ( regardless if they are satsangi or nonsatsangi) the Indians pave the way for me as perhaps I have a past association with them and in reality the Indians treat me like FAMILY so I belong with them!
July 4, 2024 @ 4:14 am
I have now decided to go for two months to dera…November and December and this was my sweet nephews brilliant idea🤣
July 4, 2024 @ 4:01 am
My mom recently came back from my sister’s house to stay here as I was not keeping so well. My mom’s brother and sister live with us and now we may have her other brother coming to live with us. He is not in a good state cos his wife passed away about a year ago and his daughter ashika passed away lately🥲 which is very difficult for him to handle I’m sure. Now there is word that his son in law together with his sister and hubby who stays with them decided to put him in an old aged home. Now, my mom’s brothers won’t survive in an old aged home as they are typical Indian men who think that they are God’s gift to earth😅 what I don’t understand is why I have no say in the matter. I know that this house belongs to Mom but I am her daughter and did not feel the need to consult with me. I had to hear this news from my little nephew who asked me how I’m going to cope with all my mom’s families nonsense as he lived her before and knows how controlling they are😂 now we may have one more Boss coming to stay here with us. I must admit that it ‘shook me upto hear that they pushed him around and hurt him and feel it’s best for him not to stay there although he paid for the house but now I have to face the consequences of their actions😅 My brother wanted to take my uncle to his wife but his wife said she is not keeping well ….very funny how everyone thinks that I am OK 24/7 and available 🤣🤣🤣
July 2, 2024 @ 10:14 am
A MUST READ SHORT STORY
“Today was a Difficult Day,” said Pooh.
There was a pause.
“Do you want to talk about it?” asked Piglet.
“No,” said Pooh after a bit. “No, I don’t think I do.”
“That’s okay,” said Piglet, and he came and sat beside his friend.
“What are you doing?” asked Pooh.
“Nothing, really,” said Piglet. “Only, I know what Difficult Days are like. I quite often don’t feel like talking about it on my Difficult Days either.
“But goodness,” continued Piglet, “Difficult Days are so much easier when you know you’ve got someone there for you. And I’ll always be here for you, Pooh.”
And as Pooh sat there, working through in his head his Difficult Day, while the solid, reliable Piglet sat next to him quietly, swinging his little legs…he thought that his best friend had never been more right.”
A.A. Milne
Sending thoughts to those having a Difficult Day today and hope you have your own Piglet to sit beside you 🧡
July 2, 2024 @ 1:22 am
Kudos to the Alias writer for the ff: some may say that Alias name is NOT real…Alias is Fake and NOT to be taken seriously……REALITY CHECK FRIENDS… the whole world is just an illusion regardless if we use so called real names or Alias names😁 so just chill and enjoy the rest of the time we have here cos NOTHING is personal….we just enacting our karmas hey….have a lekker day 💃
“I counted my years
and found that I have less time to live
from here on than I have lived up to now.
I feel like that child who won a packet of sweets:
he ate the first with pleasure,
but when he realized that there were few left,
he began to enjoy them intensely.
I no longer have time for endless meetings
where statutes,
rules,
procedures and internal regulations are discussed,
knowing that nothing will be achieved.
I no longer have time to support the absurd people who, despite their chronological age, haven’t grown up.
My time is too short:
I want the essence,
my soul is in a hurry.
I don’t have many sweets in the package anymore.
I want to live next to human people,
very human,
who know how to laugh at their mistakes
and who are not inflated by their triumphs
and who take on their responsibilities.
Thus human dignity is defended and we move towards truth and honesty
It is the essential that makes life worth living.
I want to surround myself with people who know how to touch hearts,
people who have been taught by the hard blows of life
to grow with gentle touches of the soul.
Yes, I’m in a hurry, I’m in a hurry to live with the intensity that only maturity can give.
I don’t intend to waste any of the leftover sweets.
I am sure they will be delicious,
much more than what I have eaten so far.
My goal is to reach the end satisfied
and at peace with my loved ones
and my conscience.
We have two lives
and the second begins when you realize you only have one. ”
Mario de Andrade
July 1, 2024 @ 2:34 pm
The rose’s rarest essence lives in the thorns,
-Jalal al-Din Rumi
July 1, 2024 @ 7:53 am
It is a kinda sad day today cos there is only Indian food at home🙃 So Adega Express just delivered the most yummy Fettucini Veg pasta that is beyond anyone’s comprehension 💃
Life is too short to listen to anyone’s nonsense that we are gaining too much weight etc🤣 So we must ALL refrain from exercising too much discipline in our lives as we are NOT even sure of our next breath….so don’t take ANYTHING seriously….just have a blast! 💃 💃 💃
June 29, 2024 @ 1:50 pm
Go not to the temple
by Rabindranath Tagore
Go not to the temple to put flowers upon the feet of God,
First, fill your own house with the Fragrance of love…
Go not to the temple to light candles before the altar of God,
First, remove the darkness of sin from your heart…
Go not to the temple to bow down your head in prayer,
First, learn to bow in humility before your fellowmen…
Go not to the temple to pray on bended knees,
First bend down to lift someone who is down-trodden…
Go not to the temple to ask for forgiveness for your sins,
First, forgive from your heart those who have sinned against you. 🙏
June 29, 2024 @ 1:00 am
“Piglet?” said Pooh.
“Yes?” said Piglet.
“I’m scared,” said Pooh.
For a moment, there was silence.
“Would you like to talk about it?” asked Piglet, when Pooh didn’t appear to be saying anything further.
“I’m just so scared,” blurted out Pooh.
“So anxious. Because I don’t feel like things are getting any better. If anything, I feel like they might be getting worse. People are angry, because they’re so scared, and they’re turning on one another, and there seems to be no clear plan out of here, and I worry about my friends and the people I love, and I wish SO much that I could give them all a hug, and oh, Piglet! I am so scared, and I cannot tell you how much I wish it wasn’t so.”
Piglet was thoughtful, as he looked out at the blue of the skies, peeping between the branches of the trees in the Hundred Acre Wood, and listened to his friend.
“I’m here,” he said, simply. “I hear you, Pooh. And I’m here.”
For a moment, Pooh was perplexed.
“But… aren’t you going to tell me not to be so silly? That I should stop getting myself into a state and pull myself together? That it’s hard for everyone right now?”
“No,” said Piglet, quite decisively. “No, I am very much not going to do any of those things.”
“But – ” said Pooh.
“I can’t change the world right now,” continued Piglet. “And I am not going to patronize you with platitudes about how everything will be okay because I don’t know that.
“What I can do, though, Pooh, is that I can make sure that you know that I am here. And that I will always be here, to listen; and to support you; and for you to know that you are heard.
“I can’t make those Anxious Feelings go away, not really.
“But I can promise you that, all the time I have breath left in my body…you won’t ever need to feel those Anxious Feelings alone.”
And it was a strange thing, because even as Piglet said that, Pooh could feel some of those Anxious Feelings start to loosen their grip on him and could feel one or two of them start to slither away into the forest, cowed by his friend, who sat there stolidly next to him.
Pooh thought he had never been more grateful to have Piglet in his life.😇
June 26, 2024 @ 9:59 am
Samba chatted to me in dera and gave a rundown of who to watch out for in durban but not thought the world of U and said that U are like her brother!
However, as usual Krishni has to come into ur story….she said that u both were extremely close but she had to get married cos she was pregnant and at the moment she is going out with her friend Pravisas brother who is a divorcee like her. And she was so happy about that. Strange how protective she is of U. She said ull are far related. And I acted like I don’t know U at all.😀 U are really lucky to have such a loyal and protective sister like Samba.
June 26, 2024 @ 5:14 am
I said: what about my eyes?
God said: Keep them on the road.
I said: what about my passion?
God said: Keep it burning.
I said: what about my heart?
God said: Tell me what you hold inside it?
I said: pain and sorrow?
God said: Stay with it. The wound is the place where the Light enters you.
❤️
June 25, 2024 @ 9:51 pm
A kind woman was once asked,
“How can you be so gentle
in a world that is so harsh?”
She smiled and, pointing to her heart, she said:
“When you are strong on the inside,
you can afford to be soft on the outside,
for there is no need to prove
what already exists within“
~🌸●🌸~
🌸Words by Tahlia Hunter 🌸
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June 25, 2024 @ 1:26 pm
The Face of Beauty.
The face of each beauty is the reflection of His face,
The fragrance and color of each garden are His.
In every Heart and Soul, the search for Him alone,
Every tongue and every mind, His thought adorns.
The goal of every creed and religion is His abode,
He is the ultimate aim of every sect and nation.
In the Kaaba, in the Church and in the Temple,
The worshippers are entranced by His eyes!💗~Sufi Master Shah Niaz
June 24, 2024 @ 9:13 pm
With my Beloved I play the game of Love. If I win, He is mine. If I lose, I am His [Amir Khusro] 🔴🔴🔴
June 23, 2024 @ 11:08 am
I am in lots of trouble🤨
June 22, 2024 @ 1:02 pm
Love this!
Rumi~
When I am gone, release me. Let me go,
I have so many things to see, do and show.
You mustn’t tie yourself to me with tears,
Be happy, we had so many years.
I gave you my love and you can only guess
How much you gave to me in happiness.
I thank you for the love you each have shown
But now it’s time I traveled alone.
So grieve a while for me if grieve you must
Then let your grief be comforted by trust.
It’s only for a while that we must part
So bless those memories in your heart.
I won’t be far away for life goes on some,
So if you need me , call and I will come.
Though you can’t see or touch me, I’ll be near
with all my love around you soft and clear.
And then, when you come this way to roam,
I’ll greet you with a smile and “Welcome You Home”.
~Mowlana Rumi RA
June 21, 2024 @ 8:20 am
Awesome 👌
I belong to no religion. My religion is love. My heart is my temple. – Rumi
June 20, 2024 @ 6:46 am
Must Read…Samba sent this.
FYI … I don’t reply
💐🇮🇳💞🙏🇮🇳 Most of us can’t do what Simran just did. And yet she isn’t trending or in the news.
She is a blind runner and just won gold for India 🇮🇳 in 200m finishing in 25.95 secs at the ParaAthletics World Championship.
Go out and try running 200m at that pace. You will feel your lungs in your hand. Simran was born with semi-developed ears and was kept in an incubator for seven months.
Doctors had given up hope and were not sure of her survival. But, 22 years later, she became the first Indian woman to qualify for the 100-metre track event in Tokyo Paralympics. Remember the name Simran Sharma for Paris.
Her husband is her coach who is a soldier in the 🇮🇳 Indian Army. The family had to take a loan and sell their land to fund her training.
The least we can do is share her accomplishments. She is not expecting that, but if we don’t do that, her hard work and grit will go unnoticed.
🙏🇮🇳🫡
June 20, 2024 @ 4:31 am
.@majzoob…egoisthelasttogo…. Many ascetics, holy men, and swamis have, after years of sacrifice and deprivation, succumbed to the subtle passion of pride…
Pride is subtle – it cannot see itself because it sees nothing but self. It can never see its own imperfections. It sees its own shortcomings reflected in others while it imagines itself perfect.
Another subtle manifestation of pride is when we tell others what to do without being asked for our opinion. The big assumption is: “I am right!” This assumption leads to arguments, fights, disputes, wars and bloodshed. Yet its opposite – humility – leads to sharing, caring and serving.
We must not be afraid of the truth or the ideal, even if we are not practising it. We must remember that we are here in the creation because we are all imperfect and that we are all striving for the same goal.
Maharaj Charan Singh once said that Sant Mat presents the ideal so that we can strive for it. It doesn’t mean that those who follow Sant Mat always practise the ideal. We are all struggling souls and we are all striving to achieve the ideal. But if the ideal is not presented to us, what will we strive for?
EGO IS THE LAST TO GO!
June 20, 2024 @ 2:39 am
I love living in my own country…right here in our small Sleepy Hollow area which I’ve sworn to die here at my hometown!
Unfortunately, I will have to relocate to another country altogether for the sake of my family. They obviously do not know the reason and will assume that I’m leaving willingly. Life is short….Hope I don’t have much more time here to live
Just had to tell my Alias pal my secret☺️
June 19, 2024 @ 10:46 am
The msg below is a msg from Samba😅 and had another hectic Gratitude pic msg that she was pointing too..😛
👆
Being thankful for everything you have is a powerful mindset that transforms your life. Gratitude opens your heart to abundance and allows you to see the beauty in every moment. It shifts your focus from what’s lacking to the wealth of blessings around you, fueling your spirit with positivity and resilience. Embrace this gratitude daily, and watch how it attracts even more goodness into your life. Remember, when you appreciate what you have, you create a foundation of joy and contentment that empowers you to reach for even greater heights. Celebrate your journey and let your thankfulness be the spark that lights up your world. 💪
🙏🏽🌹🙏🏽🌹🙏🏽
June 18, 2024 @ 12:08 pm
Must Read…
Love is “an intense feeling Of deep affection.”
🖤//❤️//🖤
Excellent Read!
I am way faaaaar from Perfect but try my best to be a good person and know it’s NOT worth trying to prove it.
I have a long way to go and sorry if U feel that I’m hitting on U and offended so explaining what Love means☺️
I am exhausted and just listening to some music now which calms me and if I’m lucky it might create Love within me.
Good Night
June 17, 2024 @ 6:49 am
Today, I am so grateful that God knows my heart. Others may misunderstand my good intentions, judge my words or deeds, find fault, or blame what they truly do not understand. But GOD knows my heart. He knows I am learning, I am trying, and I am a work in progress, I am becoming all that He created me to be.
June 17, 2024 @ 6:47 am
“Nothing is more important than empathy for another human being’s suffering. Not a career. Not wealth Not intelligence. Certainly not status We have to feel for one another if we’re going to survive with dignity. -⁃ Audrey Hepburn
June 12, 2024 @ 11:20 pm
Regardless of how much NONSENSE you utter in our
Beloved Masters presense, He will NOT be perturbed at all cos He loves us unconditionally hey. Our words will certainly not drive Him away cos He knows everything 😁❤️🙏
Divine love is without condition, without boundary, without change.
June 10, 2024 @ 7:38 am
My cousins out here are NOT happy with us bring moral support to the grieving family as they feel that that family has wronged us and we must not trust them bagera bagera
Mom has a totally different take on this. She said we are all here just to pay off karmas and none of us are perfect!
And her brother has also lost his daughter so she really feels bad for him and stands by them all. She said to me that what happened to them is very tragic and sad so there is no time for past stories😂 and pointing fingers
And time for all to be supportive.
Should any one of us commit a crime, the Master /Karma will handle as none of us are appointed to sort anyone out😂
So I’m just going with what Mom says which makes sense but my cousins think otherwise calling me foolish☺️
Strange how none of us can even learned from how death snatched my cousin who was such a young mom. It is NOT worth being angry with anyone.
When I heard she had less time to live, I realised then how much she meant to be as she lived with us for 10 years so we all share a special bond with her.
Mom is correct in saying that we must be supportive and caring and there is no need to be upset about anyone’s behaviour but try and improve ourselves
June 10, 2024 @ 7:18 am
Don’t be angry
with each other,
but forgive each
other. If you feel
someone has
wronged you,
forgive them,
Forgive others
because the Lord
forgave .you
Colossians 3:13
June 9, 2024 @ 5:25 pm
,,RUMI’S LAST LETTER TO SHAMS”
,,Sometimes I wonder, sweetest love, if you
Were a mere dream in along winter night,
A dream of spring-days, and of golden light
Which sheds its rays upon a frozen heart;
A dream of wine that fills the drunken eye.
And so I wonder, sweetest love, if I
Should drink this ruby wine, or rather weep;
Each tear a bezel with your face engraved,
A rosary to memorize your name…
There are so many ways to call you back-
Yes, even if you only were a dream.”
June 8, 2024 @ 7:58 am
On my way back home from sewa and had an awesome time. I did not see U but somehow felt U R somewhere around. Maybe u was there in spirit hey.
Take care
June 8, 2024 @ 12:40 am
We did have loads of fun playing in the water during sewa the other day and my friend who was my room mate in Beas took out photos etc. Now yesterday she tells me that her brother was commenting on what an amazing person I am😂
He is such a noble and kind person and is as good as my brother too , I replied to her😂
I did not know that anyone will assume we are in a hindi movie playing in
water 😂😂😂
I told mom what happened and she said it’s not a crime that happened but I must just act like i don’t know anything and move on and work with ladies only😂😂
Mom said that it’s my friend’s fault as she sings my praises to the whole world and getting her brother excited to😂😂
June 7, 2024 @ 7:07 am
Alias Ruhani Marg 2020 …Alias Dr J
O Khusro, the river of Love runs in strange directions. One who jumps into it drowns, and the one who drowns, gets across.
Don’t think Beloved that i am at peace after separated from You. Oil lamp burns in night and heart burns day and night,
With my Beloved I play the game of Love.
If I win, He is mine.
If I lose, I am His.
Amir Khusru…💎
June 6, 2024 @ 1:01 am
When I Die -Jalaluddin Rumi
When I die, when my coffin is being taken out, you must never think I am missing this world
Don’t shed any tears,don’t lament or feel sorry, I’m not falling into a monster’s abyss
When you see my corpse is being carried, don’t cry for my leaving, I’m not leaving, I’m arriving at eternal love.
When you leave me in the grave don’t say goodbye, remember a grave is only a curtain for the paradise behind.
You’ll only see me descending into a grave, now see me rise. How can there be an end when the sun sets or the moon goes down
It looks like the end, it seems like a sunset but in reality it is a dawn when the grave locks you up, that is when your soul is freed
Have you ever seen a seed fallen to earth , not rise with a new life,why should you doubt the rise of a seed named human?
Have you ever seen a bucket lowered into a welcoming back empty? Why lament for a soul when it can come back like Joseph from the well?
When for the last time you close your mouth your words and soul will belong to the world of no place no time.
June 5, 2024 @ 11:24 am
I am on a *Go Slow* mode and Mom says that we are going to do Church work tomorrow in ur district😂
June 5, 2024 @ 7:11 am
I don’t know.if something is seriously wrong with me as I do.NOT except and FEAR although anyone else Will crumble into pieces
June 1, 2024 @ 11:12 pm
“Piglet?” said Pooh.
“Yes?” said Piglet.
“I’m scared,” said Pooh.
For a moment, there was silence.
“Would you like to talk about it?” asked Piglet, when Pooh didn’t appear to be saying anything further.
“I’m just so scared,” blurted out Pooh.
“So anxious. Because I don’t feel like things are getting any better. If anything, I feel like they might be getting worse. People are angry, because they’re so scared, and they’re turning on one another, and there seems to be no clear plan out of here, and I worry about my friends and the people I love, and I wish SO much that I could give them all a hug, and oh, Piglet! I am so scared, and I cannot tell you how much I wish it wasn’t so.”
Piglet was thoughtful, as he looked out at the blue of the skies, peeping between the branches of the trees in the Hundred Acre Wood, and listened to his friend.
“I’m here,” he said, simply. “I hear you, Pooh. And I’m here.”
For a moment, Pooh was perplexed.
“But… aren’t you going to tell me not to be so silly? That I should stop getting myself into a state and pull myself together? That it’s hard for everyone right now?”
“No,” said Piglet, quite decisively. “No, I am very much not going to do any of those things.”
“But – ” said Pooh.
“I can’t change the world right now,” continued Piglet. “And I am not going to patronise you with platitudes about how everything will be okay, because I don’t know that.
“What I can do, though, Pooh, is that I can make sure that you know that I am here. And that I will always be here, to listen; and to support you; and for you to know that you are heard.
“I can’t make those Anxious Feelings go away, not really.
“But I can promise you that, all the time I have breath left in my body…you won’t ever need to feel those Anxious Feelings alone.”
And it was a strange thing, because even as Piglet said that, Pooh could feel some of those Anxious Feelings start to loosen their grip on him and could feel one or two of them start to slither away into the forest, cowed by his friend, who sat there stolidly next to him.
Pooh thought he had never been more grateful to have Piglet in his life.
June 1, 2024 @ 7:40 am
Kudos to Ram Das Ji
The quieter you become, the more you can hear”. What a powerful message. So powerful that I have heard it 4 times this week from 4 different avenues. “I hear you, point taken”.
There are points in our lives when we are in the midst of change, stuck in turmoil, perhaps finding our self at a crossroads. The moment when we feel overwhelmed, numb, lost. The moment when we find our self asking “who am I?” The days when we feel unrest and a tug at our heart. For some its far to easy to ignore this tug, to go through the motions, to “just make it by”. For others, the tug is a sign, a sign that there is a bigger message and meaning out there ready to be heard, if we choose to make time to listen.
Making it a daily priority to be still, be quiet, to listen enables us to hear the voice. The voice of the universe, the voice of God – guiding us through this turmoil. The turmoil that one day will blossom into an amazing transformation, the transformation leading us to our true self, who we were meant to be.
May 31, 2024 @ 11:51 am
Often, we don’t
realize that a moment
might be our last with
someone, assuming
there will always be
another chance.
We live as if time is
limitless, but in reality,
it’s fleeting. Cherish
every moment, because
sometiměs, forever
is shorter than
we think.
I am abit under the weather…..and who knows …..life is so short …..I may not see tomorrow so ….just to wish U well. I cannot say I will remember u in Sach Khand cos I heard u forget everyone there😁 so take care my friend and remember that U are Special always ❤️
May 28, 2024 @ 2:04 pm
Kudos Alias Arveena…anonymous
Oh God…If I Ever Forget The Song Of My Heart….
I Know…You Will Sing It For Me….
If I Ever Lost My Way ….My Path To My Destination…..
I Know……You Will Bring It To Me….
I Won’t Have Ever Thought Or Written ……Even A Single Poem Or Word…
I Know…….It’s You Only …..Who Always Guide And Write….
I Would Have Got Lost In My Own Darkness Long Time Back……
I Know…….It’s You Only…Who Saved Me And Has Shown Me….. My Own Soul Light…..
And That’s The Only Reason…..
I Keep On Folllowing My Dreams……By Crossing All Hurdles And Puddles That Come My Way……..
And That’s The Only Reason…..
I Won’t Give Up On My Aims ….. Dreams And Passions …..Come What May…
Yours Daughter ……💖ArVi………..!!”
A Trip To Poetryland ArVi Copyrights January 2018.
May 27, 2024 @ 11:52 am
P1anting Your Spring Garden
For The Garden of Your Daily Living
Plant Three Rows of peas
2.
Peace of Mind
Peace of Heart
Peace of Soul
Plant Four Rows of Squash
3.
4
Squash Gossip
Squash Indifference
Squash Grumbling
Squash Selfishness
Plant Four Rows of Lettuce
3.
Lettuce Be Faithful
Lettuce Be Kind
Lettuce Be Patient
Lettuce Really Love One Another
No _Garden is Complete Without Turnips
1.
3.
Turnip For Meetings
Turnip For Service
Turnip To Help One Another
To Conclude Our Garden We Must Have Thyme
1.
2.
3.
Thyme For Each Other
Thyme For Family
Thyme For Friends
Water Freely With Patience And Cultivate With Love.
There Is Much Fruit In Your Garden Because You Reap
What You Sow. Pass It On!!!
May 27, 2024 @ 4:24 am
Beautiful Friend …
Words like “Thank you”
and “Bless you”
and “I appreciate you”
and “I am thankful that you are here”
and “You are my daily inspiration”
and “The amazing in me recognizes the amazing in you”
are just little words to describe my feelings for the privilege of having you in my life.
Thank You..
Have A Lovely Day!
🌸
May 23, 2024 @ 1:26 pm
Good one!
The Story of Sand and Stone
Once there were two boys named John and James. They were best friends. They usually fought for various reasons. They disagreed in lots of things. But they never left each other. They were such good friends that they searched for jobs together and travelled to several places. They went to various cities together. They also went to towns, villages, forests, sea beaches and deserts. They always supported each other in life.
One day, John and James went to a desert. They walked for hours, and eventually, they got tired. But alas! They were left with very little water and food. Both of them were thirsty and hungry. So, James said, “we should at least drink some water. I am very thirsty.” But John disagreed with James. He wanted to save the remaining food and water.
So, they started to quarrel with each other. Suddenly, John got very angry and slapped James for misbehaving with him. But James said nothing. He wrote on the sand, “My best friend John slapped me today!”
They started to walk again. After hours of walking, John and James saw an oasis. They were very happy to see water in the middle of that desert. So they decided to take a bath and have some fun together.
James was a little careless. Suddenly, John saw that James was drowning. So, John rushed to him and saved James. James was so grateful to John for saving his life that he hugged John and thanked him for saving his life. “Thank you so much for saving my life and being my best friend,” James said to John.
Later they took a little nap and then decided to start walking again. When they were about to leave the place, James found a stone and carved on it, “My best friend John saved my life today.”
John was very happy to see James’s sweet gesture. James said to John, “I carved that you slapped me on the sand because I knew the wind would have blown it away. But you saved my life this time, and I carved it on the rock because I know it will remain on the stone forever.”
Moral of the Story
The moral of the above story is: “We should remember the good things in life and forget the bad ones.”
May 21, 2024 @ 3:51 am
Kudos to the Messenger…..Awesome message for EVERYONE 👀
VersionPage 39 – The Book of RumiP. 39
“I beg Your forgiveness, my God,” he continued. “I’ve sinned throughout
this long life that You’ve gifted me. I’ve spent it singing and playing music,
forgetting the pain of being separated from You, and I and no one else am the
cause of my guilt and shame,” he confessed. “Please save me from myself, for
my enemy is within me, closer to me than my own pathetic soul!”
Omar comforted the agitated man, telling him that he must let go of his
past as well as his future, for he was still entangled between them; and that
meant that he was not yet one with God and had not yet put his full trust
in the Creator. As he listened to Omar’s wise words, the old musician felt a
purer light rising in his heart, enveloping his body and soul. Astounded, he
felt that he was letting go of the world he had known until then and found
himself positioned in a different space, untouched by superfi ciality; a world
that required an alternative understanding where no words were left to speak,
where solitude and silence were the order of the day.🙏
May 20, 2024 @ 11:17 am
Nobody needs to get unimpressed or annoyed cos I plan to move far far away from the Perfect crowd.
We will always share a special bond….take care Dr J!
May 8, 2024 @ 1:36 pm
This is too much!!!
All my cousins assume that I am the strongest and I have to encourage them which is nor a problem but I am also dying inside😭
Sometimes I wish I could dissappear into thin air and reach Sach Khand asap!
May 6, 2024 @ 10:02 pm
If the hands stop working, use your feet. If there remained no feet, use your voice. If you lost your mind, use your intuition. In short, at every condition, express your loyalty.
(Rumi Quatrain 1497)
May 1, 2024 @ 7:51 am
Best lines…..
Footprints in the Sand
One night I dreamed I was walking along the beach with
the Lord. Scenes from my life flashed across the sky. In
each, I noticed footprints in the sand. Sometimes there were
two sets of footprints; other times there was only one.
During the low periods of my life I could see only one set of
footprints, so I said, “You promised me, Lord, that you would
walk with me always. Why, when I have needed you most,
have you not been there for me?”
The Lord replied, “The times when you have seen only one setof footprints, my child, is when I carried you.”✨️
April 22, 2024 @ 1:44 pm
Hi…hope you are doing OK
I am fine to mild with isolated thundershowers😁
We know in theory that the Master is here every step of the way for us all but why is it so hard to accept death?
Especially death of a young Mom😭
My cousin is getting weaker by the day and not taking any treatment so it’s worrying as to what will happen next hey!
All I have to say to myself is
HE HAS THE WHOLE WORLD IN HIS HANDS ✋️
April 21, 2024 @ 2:03 pm
“Right now, you are like Sleeping Beauty,
fast asleep to the beauty and wonder of the world
and your own.
But once you awake, you will see it everywhere.
For in time,
the spell that has been cast on you of not feeling “enough”
will be broken,
and you will realize that you are equally precious in every stage of life,
as each one contains its own beauty and magic.
And the person you are today would not exist
without the person you were yesterday.
And with newfound love and compassion,
and a deeper sense of joy,
you will come to see the love that has always surrounded you
and that heaven on Earth is possible,
when seen through the right set of eyes.”
Words by Tahlia Hunter
April 16, 2024 @ 1:35 am
Why is the writer saying stuff like it’s better off to be alone bagera bagera☺️
Why can’t the writer be DIRECT and say DONT TAlK TO ME AbOUT UR PROBLEMS Bagera Bagera….go back to Beas to ur own people and leave us alone cos I already have a close friend who goes a long way back with me….so get lost Anita and stay lost!
April 11, 2024 @ 2:31 pm
My cousin is in a bad way.
Her results came and she has sarcoma , a type of cancer in the lower esophagus. I sometimes feel I’m very strong but I am very weak cos it is very difficult to accept as she is so young and this happened suddenly 😔
Her mom passed away lately and it was tragic and now she is so sick. We know that the Master will be here for us regardless if we are alive or die and understand this only in theory cos all this is very difficult to accept😒
April 7, 2024 @ 2:42 am
BiG HEARTS DESERVE BiG HUGS
& I”M SENDiNG YOU ONE TODAY
WON’T YOU PASS iT ON ..
EVERYONE NEEDS A HUG✨️
March 11, 2024 @ 2:36 pm
Tomorrow is D Day….to travel to Fathers True HOME…..Sweet Dreams✨️
March 10, 2024 @ 9:59 am
I think a good friend, to me, is all about trust and loyalty. You don’t ever want to second-guess whether you can tell your friend something.
-Lauren Conrad
March 2, 2024 @ 12:49 pm
Sand and Stone Story
The moral of the story is to
“Learn to write your hurts in the sand and to carve your blessings in stone”. This way, your hurts are blown away in the wind and the wind can never blow away your blessings.🌟
March 2, 2024 @ 11:54 am
“Her secret is simple. On her worst days, she prays. And on her best days, she prays.”
Mom is NOT happy for me to postpone my trip for October. Said what needs to be done today should be done today. And she has a very high regard for one of the ladies whom I’m to travel with…Semba. Said that we all can do sewa but very few of us understand the actual reason we are doing sewa…to become humble but most of us become proud by choosing what task to do bagera bagera😃
I agree that she deserves praise bit I try my best and cannot possible be perfect Rome was not built in a day. Mom is basically very happy for me to travel with this lady. And don’t know what’s wrong with Mom…said I must help out with this lady’s sewa when I come back on a saturday😃😃😃.Mom should have some mercy on me. I am already tired and she is thinking of next sew😂
March 2, 2024 @ 2:22 am
Think twice before opening your mouth. You don’t want to regret those words as they leave your lips.
🧡//🧡//🧡
How can U give me more insight and guidance regarding the above without hurting my feelings dear Friend 😃
February 29, 2024 @ 2:31 pm
I LOVE THIS ANALOGY:
You are holding a cup of coffee when someone comes along and bumps into you or shakes your arm, making you spill your coffee everywhere.
Why did you spill the coffee?
“Because someone bumped into me!!!”
Wrong answer.
You spilled the coffee because there was coffee in your cup.
Had there been tea in the cup, you would have spilled tea.
Whatever is inside the cup is what will spill out.
Therefore, when life comes along and shakes you (which WILL happen), whatever is inside you will come out. It’s easy to fake it, until you get rattled.
So we have to ask ourselves… “what’s in my cup?”
When life gets tough, what spills over?
Joy, gratitude, peace and humility?
Anger, bitterness, victim mentality and quitting-tendencies?
Life provides the cup, YOU choose how to fill it.
Today let’s work towards filling our cups with gratitude, forgiveness, joy, words of affirmation, resilience, positivity; and kindness, gentleness and love for others. 🤗
February 29, 2024 @ 7:45 am
JusttoletUknowthatIamcancellingalltravelplanstomorrowasIneedtobehereformyniece.IwillfeelbadthereasIamnotgoingwithanyfamilyandratherjustchillhere.imsurethatisgoodnewsformany
February 28, 2024 @ 11:47 am
WuTHERING HEIGHTS
EMILY BRONTË
“He’s more myself than I am.
Whatever our souls are made of,
his and mine are the same.”
February 25, 2024 @ 8:20 am
Stumbled upon this which is a good reminder for us ALL!
The heart is a
The thousand-stringed instrument
That can only be tuned with
Love.” – Hafiz
February 23, 2024 @ 8:31 am
“Great troubles unfold from tiny errors.
Don’t ever let your guard down.”
RaidasMentalFitGymCoachTim
February 7, 2024 @ 6:17 am
A soul that has never tasted the sweetness Of inner silence is a restless spirit which disturbs the silence of others.
💙//💙//💙
Many thanks to the Crocodile of the River who is the author of above!
I do NOT have any hard feelings towards anyone but will keep away from all you great people.
And if you don’t want me to ever communicate with U…so be it!!!!
And I do NOT take it personally!
You always wanted to stop the Skylark from Singing Right….the good news is that I will just be in this country fo another year only and will keep my distance , I promise!
Peace be with us all!💃
February 7, 2024 @ 12:28 am
Good Morning Dr J
Hope u r well. I had a chat with my aunt and she advised me to NOT have any dealings with people at ur district as they are very malicious and always up to tricks when it comes to our family. They feel that they are all Nris and we are Street Indians😂
In dera this is the problem. The Nris and Indians have a tug of war😂😂😂
And here u guys view us as Street Illiterate Indians…remember how u said that people who watch hindi films are Illiterate…that was years ago….well, I don’t watch the entire hindi movie…I skip and watch the songs mainly so I am semi Illiterate😂
And lokash is abit changed cos she is hung up on You as her brother said that u are after his sister ….what she does NOT realise is U look quiet and conservative but like the KAANTA LAGE type of woman and she is a decent girl so u won’t be attracted to her but only have eyes for your very own Kaante Lage Woman from my area…a hot and happening divorcee who has years of experience with the Sheiks in Saudi….Lokash does NOT know U from Adam I guess hey!
Anyways, I have no hard feelings with U guys. U all can hide my dera approval form which does NOT make any difference to me. Ull can hide it safely if it makes ull happy.😂
Peace be upon All in Jesus’s name🌟
January 26, 2024 @ 6:22 am
Only those who care about You Can hear when you are
Quite.
🤎//🤎//🤎
Oops…My Apologies Sir….think I made a spelling error which was NOT intentional😊
January 25, 2024 @ 8:58 am
I’m ‘Slowly’ Learning That I Don’t Have To React To ‘Everything’ That Bothers Me!
I’m slowly learning that I don’t have to hurt those who hurt me.
I’m slowly learning that maybe the ‘ultimate’ sign of maturity is walking away instead of getting even.
I’m slowly learning that the energy it takes to react to every bad thing that happens to you drains you and stops you from seeing the other good things in life.
I’m slowly learning that I’m not going to be everyone’s cup of tea and I won’t be able to get everyone to treat me the way I want to be treated ‘and that’s okay.’
I’m slowly learning that trying so hard to ‘win’ anyone is just a ‘waste’ of time and energy and it fills you with ‘nothing’ but emptiness.
I’m slowly learning that not reacting doesn’t mean I’m okay with things, it just means I’m choosing to ‘rise’ above it!
I’m choosing to take the ‘lesson’ it has served and learn from it I’m choosing to be ‘the bigger’ person.
I’m choosing ‘Peace of Mind’🌟
Peace with All🙏
January 21, 2024 @ 4:03 am
Nice to see U now in the open with your childhood sweetheart.
Mom said that she did see U both and asked me NOT to comment as U both are single and don’t I dare mention to Peventthri as she informed me of your bond.
Going to the beachfront now. Enjoy your romantic afternoon with the love of your life👌
January 19, 2024 @ 12:13 pm
My Master, My Father’s is my Life so I will do everything to please Him
January 19, 2024 @ 12:11 pm
☕
*A beautiful poem by Lee Tzu Pheng (Singapore Cultural Medallion winner)*
Sip your Tea
Nice and Slow,
No one Ever knows
when it’s Time to Go,
There’ll be no Time
to enjoy the Glow,
So sip your Tea
Nice and Slow… 👌🏻
Life is too Short but
feels pretty Long,
There’s too Much to do , so much going Wrong,
And Most of the Time You Struggle to be Strong,
Before it’s too Late
and it’s time to Go,
Sip your Tea
Nice and Slow… 👌🏻
Some Friends stay,
others Go away,
Loved ones are Cherished, but not all will Stay ,
Kids will Grow up
and Fly away,
There’s really no Saying how Things will Go,
So sip your Tea
Nice and Slow… ☕
In the End it’s really
all about Understanding Love,
For this World
and in the Stars above,
Appreciate and Value who truly Cares,
Smile and Breathe
and let your Worries go,
So, Just Sip your Tea
Nice and Slow…. ☕
*This poem is beyond all relationships*
*But made for us all*
* *When I’m dead.*
* _*Your tears will flow*_
* _*But I won’t know*_
* _*Cry with me now instead!*_
* _*You will send flowers,..*_
* _*But I won’t see*_
* _*Send them now instead*_
* _*You’ll say words of praise,..*_
* _*But I won’t hear..*_
* _*Praise me now instead!*_
* _*You’ll forget my faults,….*_
* _*But I won’t know…..*_
* _*Forget them now, instead!*_
* _*You’ll miss me then,…*_
* _*But I won’t feel…*_
* _*Miss me now, instead*_
* _*You’ll wish…*_
* _*You could have spent more time with me,…*_
*_*Spend it now instead!*_
* _*When you hear I’m gone, you’ll find your way to my house to pay condolence but we haven’t even spoken in years….*_
* _*”Spend time with every person around you, and help them with whatever you have to make them happy!! your families, friends, acquaintance…..”*_
* _*”Make them feel Special. Because you never know when time will take them away from you forever
January 16, 2024 @ 5:48 am
Sewa starts at HOME!
The plan was to go to Beas in March for sewa purposes!
This is CANCElled!!!!
As I am involved in a very dangerous mission against very dangerous people. I am NOT so
Hurt by what the guilty did but with the betrayal of a family member( young boy) who was a good boy but fell into the wrong company. He is my mom’s brother’s grandson who DARED to MESS with someone precious to me who is like my daughter!
Does it make sense to dance around and do sewa abroad when there is so much work to be done here!!!!
I have many friends ( non RS Indian friends from India that live here and Pakistani friends) who will do the NEEDFUL!
Like I said…SEWA starts at HOME!
The S.A. sangat labeled me as a THUG and threw me out….
I AM JUST PROVING U GUYS RIGHT, My dear Mentor and GUIDE. Like I said I like to be Super Smart like U but I don’t think I can reach ur level in a million yeard😂
January 15, 2024 @ 12:45 am
I sometimes forget
that I was created for Joy.
My mind is too busy.
My Heart is too heavy
for me to remember
that I have been
called to dance
the Sacred dance of life.
I was created to smile
To Love
To be lifted up
And to lift others up.
O’ Sacred One
Untangle my feet
from all that trap
Free my soul.
That we might
Dance
and that our dancing
might be infectious
……Rumi💞
January 14, 2024 @ 10:11 am
So I committed myself to living a year as though it were my last. To practice dying. To be fully alive. To investigate the dread of, and resistance to, life and death. To complete my birth before it’s over. To investigate that part of myself that refuses to take birth fully, and hops about as though it still had one foot in the womb. To enter the healing I have seen so many times as miraculous growth during a final illness. To place both feet on the ground at last. To live with mercy and awareness in the midst of the consequences of love, or the lack thereof. To explore this ground, the ground of being, out of which this impermanent body and ever-changing mind originate. To cut through a lifetime of confusion and forgetfulness. To undertake a life review with gratitude and forgiveness. To explore that which holds to its suffering, and cultivate a heart that cannot be distracted even by death. ~Stephen Levine
January 9, 2024 @ 8:21 am
I am TRYING to be strong but I am NOW breaking down. Something terrible has happened to my younger niece and I cannot accept it!
I am TRYING my best to hand over everything to our Father…our Master but I am battling so much!
What do you suggest I do Dr J?????
This afternoon they are going to tell my Mom about it and I shudder to think how she will feel?
Is it wrong for me to feel that I should NOT be here??????
January 8, 2024 @ 7:47 pm
The Road Not Taken by Robert Frost
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.✨️
January 7, 2024 @ 4:26 am
THE 3 TYPES OF PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE..
1. The Leaf people
2. The Branch people
3. The Root people
LEAF PEOPLE:
These are people who come into your life just for a season. You can’t depend on them because they are weak. They only come to take what they want, but if the wind comes they will leave.
You need to be careful of these people because they love you when things are okay, but when the wind comes they will leave you 🥺
BRANCH PEOPLE:
They are strong, but you need to be careful with them too. They break away when life becomes tough and they can’t handle too much weight. They may stay with you in some seasons, but they will go when it becomes harder 😢
ROOT PEOPLE: These people are very important because they don’t do things to be seen. They are supportive even if you go through a difficult time they will water you and they are not moved by your position they just love you like that …
It’s not all people you meet or are your friends, that will stay with you.
Only the root type of people will stay no matter the season 👏☺️
January 4, 2024 @ 11:33 am
“The best thing for being sad,” replied Merlin, beginning to puff and blow, “is to learn something. That’s the only thing that never fails. You may grow old and trembling in your anatomies, you may lie awake at night listening to the disorder of your veins, you may miss your only love, you may see the world about you devastated by evil lunatics, or know your honour trampled in the sewers of baser minds. There is only one thing for it then — to learn.
Learn why the world wags and what wags it. That is the only thing which the mind can never exhaust, never alienate, never be tortured by, never fear or distrust, and never dream of regretting. Learning is the only thing for you. Look what a lot of things there are to learn.”
― T.H. White, The Once and Future King
January 3, 2024 @ 11:29 am
Hope u r keeping well Dr J
I am feeling ok but not really, I am housebound for a few days now. Hopefully I will be ok soon.
Take care
December 26, 2023 @ 1:46 am
Reason is Powerless in the expression of Love.
Love alone is capable of revealing the truth of Love and being a Lover.
The way of our Prophets is the way of Truth.
If you want to live,
die in Love;
die in Love if you want to remain alive..❣️🌹❣️
‘Rumi
December 24, 2023 @ 1:51 am
We are having my dad’s family over for lunch today. They are converted to Christian and really amazing people.
Enjoy Christmas Eve❤️🙏
December 20, 2023 @ 2:58 am
“Real friends are the ones you can count on no matter what. The ones who go into the forest to find you and bring you home.And real friends never have to tell you that they’re your friends.”
December 20, 2023 @ 1:08 am
Lovely hey!
Inspiring others is not an easy task, but we all do it whether we know it or not, whether it is through a talk we have with our friends or sending them some kind of motivating and inspiring message, or it can happen with no communication at all. Our life, whether or not we see it as some grandeur experience, is giving life to others each day. Our life means something to the people closest to us. Those in our inner circles are watching us, and we have the ability to inspire them whether we realize it or not. We have absolutely no idea how and who we are inspiring, but as Maya Angelou says: “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” So be aware of your power to inspire others by honoring it. By honoring it, we in fact honor those who find us motivating. Be strong and walk through life knowing that you have the capacity to shine, and the light that you carry, others can see and admire. 💕
November 28, 2023 @ 7:41 am
My darling nephew is suddenly very concerned that I might not want to come back from Beas😂
His dentist put braces for him yesterday and this has a negative effect on him as he is getting delusional and very worried that I won’t come back home. A friend of mine called this morning from Beas and chatted with me for awhile and he complained to his mom that her eyes light up when she is talking to the Indians and they will take my aunt away😂
He loves dera and India but said that he is S.A first and his roots are from India only.
He feels the only time he gets ignored by me is when I go to Beas cos I forget about everyone and that is not good at all. I hardly phone anyone when I’m in Beas cos I lose myself there.
He made me promise that I will call him when I can and never forget him. Said that he misses me already😂
November 26, 2023 @ 11:53 am
A young lady sat in a bus. At the next stop a loud and grumpy old lady came and sat by her.
She squeezed into the seat and bumped her with her numerous bags.
The person sitting on the other side of the young lady got upset, asked her why she did not speak up and say something.
The young lady responded with a smile:
“It is not necessary to be rude or argue over something so insignificant, the journey together is so short. I get off at the next stop.”
This response deserves to be written in golden letters:
“It is not necessary to argue over something so insignificant, our journey together is so short”
If each one of us realized that our time here is so short; that to darken it with quarrels, futile arguments, not forgiving others, discontentment and a fault finding attitude would be a waste of time and energy.
Did someone break your heart? Be calm, the journey is so short.
Did someone provoke or intimidate you? Be calm, forgive; the journey is so short.
Did someone betray, bully, cheat or humiliate you? Be calm, forgive; the journey is so short.
Whatever troubles anyone brings us, let us remember that our journey together is so short.
No one knows the duration of this journey. No one knows when their stop will come.
Our journey together is so short.
Let us cherish friends and family. Let us be respectful, kind and forgiving to each other. Let us be filled with gratitude and gladness.
If I have ever hurt you, I ask for your forgiveness. If you have ever hurt me, you already have my forgiveness.
After all, Our Journey Together is so Short!
Author Unknown
November 25, 2023 @ 6:46 am
I own nothing of value in the world, yet I dwell in a great kingdom.
Blessings without measure shower upon my heart.
I am only a servant, yet I am richer than all kings of earth.
My Father’s wealth is my own, for it is given me by my trust and love.
Where I feared lack in life, so was it brought forth.
Yet, as I see God in all things, so are all good things given me.
Conditioned to believe for so long, that abundance is gained by the mind, yet now I discover the greatest treasure within.
This treasure is no mere jewel, but a most sacred gift of heaven.
It is indeed the heart, where the divine dwells.
I am grateful, beyond words, and this gratitude brings forth the highest vibration…returned to me tenfold, in all aspects of my life.
This is not new information, yet deeper questions arise:
Have you truly released expectation, and embraced in complete love that which is unknown?
Are you able to say, “Thank you for that which I am about to receive”, without fear, but with a full heart?
Can you look upon all that would trouble you with peace, releasing the tight grip, recognizing the illusion of all circumstance?
For truly it is only love that goes with you beyond, and all that troubles you will fade as a dream.
But peace is to be sought here, in this physical plane, and not beyond.
You came to remember, you came to grow.
You came to love.
Therefore do not measure your worth by the world…
For the world cannot behold Heavens gift, beloved.❤️
November 24, 2023 @ 12:42 pm
Eish! While we make plans God makes His plans
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November 23, 2023 @ 9:42 am
Wehavegottoknowhowmanydiscussionsaboutme😭ipromisetosteerawayfrimallinvolvementwithyoursangatregardingsewa.takecare🙏
November 19, 2023 @ 6:57 pm
The Mountain Got Tired of Sitting
The sun
Won a beauty contest and became a jewel
Set upon God’s right hand.
The earth agreed to be a toe ring on the
Beloved’s foot
And has never regretted its decision.
The mountains got tired
Of sitting amongst a sleeping audience
And are now stretching their arms
Toward the Roof.
The clouds gave my soul an idea
So I pawned my gills
And rose like a winged diamond
Ever trying to be near
More love, more love
Like you.
The Mountain got tired of sitting
Amongst a snoring crowd inside of me
And rose like a rip sun
Into my eye.
My soul gave my heart a brilliant idea
So Hafiz is rising like a
Winged diamond.
November 18, 2023 @ 11:15 pm
Naomi Holdt never fails to touch at the heartstrings❤️
WORDS TO A YOUNG HEART
Life isn’t easy
The world can feel like a hard and unkind place
When you’ve been hurt:
Feel sad
Feel devastated
Feel disappointed
Cry
Weep
Have a meltdown if you need to
And then remember this:
There will always be citizens of this world, of all ages, who learn exclusion, criticism, and judgment from previous generations
Many members of the human race will continue to be thoughtless, hurtful, and even cruel
But my love,
How you are treated by others
The words that are hurled your way
The hurt that your heart absorbs
It is never, ever a reflection of who you are,
Of your immense value
Of your worth in this world…
It is a reflection of the brokenness of whence it came…
A spillage of pain from fractured souls…
We project onto those around us all we cannot process within ourselves
Don’t let the darkness of others dampen your light, my love
Don’t let it harden your heart…
Always include
Always be kind
Always be the absolutely magnificent human being you already are
There are astonishingly good hearted humans all around too…
Search for them- they are fireflies in the night
Fill your soul with their energy
Let them remind you that the glow of kindness exists everywhere
Walk softly alongside all earthly beings,
Walk confidently, knowing that gentleness is the greatest strength that can be possessed,
Walk with integrity
and always, always,
Be kinder than you think you need to be…
Shine
Shine
Shine
In shining regardless, we rise…
With all the love a human heart can give
Your Mamma♥️
(Aka: Naomi)
_________________________________
The above words are along the lines of what seems to be a weekly conversation I have with my kids lately.
Unkindness leaves carnage. It’s so unnecessary, but it’s an inescapable symptom of a desperately unhappy global population. It hurts- but it’s never personal.
A huge thank you to a super-amazing, kindest-souled human being- Pauline, the owner of The Nut Mill (THE best Mac butter I have EVER tasted by the way! 😋) for offering a soul space for a saddened heart to come and love some ponies, collect eggs and walk through cow fields. Full little girl’s heart, very grateful mamma heart. And a huge thank you to an incredible special Jem who helped mend a broken spirit with her kindness and care.🫶🏽
Kindness restores belief in others, it reignites belief in ourselves too. Xx
📸 As always, shared with permission.
November 18, 2023 @ 6:48 am
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November 16, 2023 @ 9:42 am
I said, ‘O sweet beloved, you are the refuge of my soul.’
He said, ‘If you belong to me, don’t talk of your own soul.’
I said, ‘Why do you cut me with your sharp words?’
He said, ‘My words wouldn’t hurt you if you weren’t in love with yourself.’
💥Jalal Ul Din Rumi 💥
November 16, 2023 @ 2:47 am
Beautifully written! However we all are made differently hey Dr J!
My nephew says that he misses me so much at their house cos when they lived at our house it was not so quiet😃 Well, my nephew and I were the noisemakers and I felt it when he moved away. I like the silence as well but not all the time. Strange how U and I are poles apart but can be ‘cyber friends’ hey👍
You are this Perfect English Gentleman and I am a loud illiterate Village girl😂
At least We have one thing in common- We have the same Father💪
“Books are the mirrors of the soul.”
There is no friend as loyal as a book…
Never trust anyone who has not brought a book with them…
Books are the plane, and the train, and the road. They are the destination, and the journey. They are home.”
A room without books is like a body without a soul.”
I love the sound of the pages flicking against my fingers. Print against fingerprints. Books make people quiet, yet they are so loud…
A reader lives a thousand lives before he dies…
Insight Feelings…♦️
November 15, 2023 @ 8:38 pm
Here’s a BIG HUG to start
your day& to let you know
everything is gonna be okay!
November 13, 2023 @ 3:14 am
Kudos to the writer who shared this!
*This Diwali is different.*
This Diwali is not about whether my house is sparkling clean, it is not about whether I have prepared a variety of mithais and namkeens, it is not about whether I have that perfect ethnic attire and jewelry for the occasion, it is not about a bucketful of bucks I would be spending on shopping and firecrackers, it is not about having a grand vacation at an exotic location, it is not even about whether I got a promotion or a raise…
*This Diwali is more about Survival.* It is about being grateful that we are still able to breathe and alive for this day. It is about being thankful for the love and care from our loved ones, It about being with the family under one roof and spending time together, It is about lighting a Diya for all those dear and near souls who left us, It is about extending support and spreading cheer to family and friends who have lost their people…It is about spreading happiness to those who have suffered losses in jobs and businesses…
*This Diwali is more about being hopeful, for a healthy & happy tomorrow.*
November 12, 2023 @ 4:31 am
If in the twilight of memory we should meet once more, we shall speak again together and you shall sing to me a deeper song.
November 11, 2023 @ 1:48 pm
Thanks to the person who shared the ff:
An Advice for all.
Cure yourself, with the light of the Sun and the rays of the Moon.
With the Sound of the river and the waterfall.
With the swaying of the Sea and the fluttering of birds.
Heal yourself, with the mint and mint leaves,
with neem and eucalyptus.
Sweeten yourself with lavender, rosemary, and chamomile.
Hug yourself with the cocoa bean and a touch of cinnamon.
Put Love in tea instead of sugar
And take it looking at the Stars
Heal yourself , with the kisses that the wind gives you and the hugs of the rain.
Get strong with bare feet on the ground and with everything that is born from it.
Get smarter every day by listening to your intuition, looking at the world with the Eye of your forehead.
Jump, Dance, Sing, so that you live happier.
Heal yourself, with beautiful Love,
and always remember..
You are the Medicine. “
November 10, 2023 @ 6:09 am
Powerful.. Joshua Dyer (aged 14) was tasked at school to write a poem for Remembrance Day. An hour later (without any help) he produced this..
ONE THOUSAND MEN ARE WALKING
One thousand men are walking
Walking side by side
Singing songs from home
The spirit as their guide
They walk toward the light milord,
they walk towards the sun
they smoke and laugh and smile together
no foes to outrun.
These men live on forever
in the hearts of those they saved
a nation truly grateful
for the path of peace they paved.
They march as friends and comrades
but they do not march for war
step closer to salvation
a tranquil steady corps
the meadows lit with golden beams
a beacon for the brave
the emerald grass untrampled
a reward for what they gave.
They dream of those they left behind
and know they dream of them
forever in those poppy fields
there walks one thousand men
Joshua Dyer 2019 (aged 14)
Lest we forget
This has to be shared. An incredible poem from 14 year old Joshua Dyer
November 6, 2023 @ 1:50 am
Hey Dr J
It does not mean that we cannot be buddies if you are now committed.
Glad to know that you are keeping well and sorry I missed U on saturday.
Now that Mom is staying with my sister I just do my own thing and get lost in my own world so dont even remember which day is Church.
But the fact that you actua;;y came to our district shows that U are not totally against me hey cos U love avoiding me and I respect your decisions.
You deserve to be happy. Take care of yourself and remember that I will always care for you even you always play hide and seek. Adious
November 2, 2023 @ 6:13 am
Hey Dr J
Please don’t be upset with me asking you about the latest news.
Lokashs brother telling others that U R into Lokash. She is nice girl.
Take care
November 1, 2023 @ 5:33 am
*A beautiful poem by nobel laureate Sir Rabindra Nath Tagore.*
*When I’m dead,*
*Your tears will flow,*
*But I won’t know.*
*Cry with me now instead.*
*You will send flowers,*
*But I won’t see.*
*Send them now instead.*
*You’ll say words of praise,*
*But I won’t hear.*
*Praise me now instead.*
*You’ll forgive my faults,*
*But I won’t know*…..
*So forget them now* *instead.*
*You’ll miss me then,*
*But I won’t feel.*
*Meet me now, instead.*
*You’ll wish you could have spent more time with me*,
*Spend it now instead.*
*When you hear I’m gone, you’ll find your way to my house to pay condolence but we haven’t even spoken in years*.
*Look , listen and reply me now.*
*Spend time with every person around you, and help them with whatever you can to make them happy, your families, friends and acquaintances.*
*Make them feel Special because you never know when time will take them away from you forever.*
*Alone I can ‘Say’ but* *together we can ‘Talk’.*
*Alone I can ‘Enjoy’, but together we can ‘Celebrate.*
*Alone I can ‘Smile’, but together we can ‘Laugh’.*
*That’s the BEAUTY of Human Relations.*
*We are nothing without each other.*
*So Stay Connected* 😊
October 27, 2023 @ 11:58 am
Last Dance
””””””””””’
We left the land of our hearts –
Broken dreams
And wounded promises behind.
No more, I sing my song
No more, you whisper your words.
Is it the end of our dance
Or shall we dance once more?
A last dance
On a broken tune of our song,
A last dance
On the wounded land of our heart.
You don’t have to say a word
I can understand your silence,
Just nod your head with love,
I will take it as your last move!
– Misna Chanu
( from the poetry book “The Silent Whispers” )
October 27, 2023 @ 9:23 am
My soul is racing
ahead of me.
It says
“The body is too slow for me.
I am going!”
~Rumi~
October 27, 2023 @ 9:21 am
IT’S A KEEP GOING
kind of day….take care
October 26, 2023 @ 8:22 am
Hope u r keeping well Dr J.
I am moving slowly but getting there. Take care
October 11, 2023 @ 11:58 pm
in ecstasy
you’ll see the sufis whirl
some utter words
in languages even angels won’t understand
some quiver and weep
out of the majesty of the Most Majestic
and some swoon
like Musa on Mount Sinai
some even die
while you still see them breathing
then their elites stay
right there in silence
without a single hair of theirs moving
in total annihilation you’ll find them
for they have seen Beauty
they have seen Love
the sufis
some have seen the drink
while some are still drinking
while few are drunk
October 10, 2023 @ 3:04 am
Zidd ( Rashmi Rocket ) full song lyrics | Taapsee pannu | Nikhita gandhi | Sha lyrics
I am listening to the above video song with my favourite lady Taapsee Pannu. I loved her acting in the movie Dhobhara.
She rocks and I adore her!
October 9, 2023 @ 8:02 am
Positivity
If my mind is still enough, I can see the deeper meaning behind each situation. No matter how bad a problem may seem on the surface, if I remain positive eventually I will see how everything has worked out for the best.
October 5, 2023 @ 9:56 am
Happy Teacher’s Day
Teacher
T alented
Elegant
Awesome
Charming
H elpful
Efficient
R eceptive
October 2, 2023 @ 11:26 am
I was afraid of being rejected
Until I learned to never reject myself
I was afraid of being abandoned
Until I learned to never abandon myself
I was afraid of the opinions of others
Until I learned that they held no more weight than my own
I was afraid of painful endings
Until I realised that they were also new beginnings
I was afraid of appearing weak
Until I realised how strong I truly was
I was afraid of being seen as small and unimportant
Until I discovered my true power and potential
I was afraid of being perceived as ugly
Until I learned to fully appreciate my own beauty
I was afraid of failure
Until I learned that it was an illusion
When viewed through the eyes of love, growth and learning
I was afraid of feeling low
Until I learned that it was the birthplace of brilliance
And where my greatest transformation occurred
I was afraid of change
Until I realised it was an inevitable part of life
In a world full of things temporary and fleeting
I was afraid of being alone
Until I learned to fully embrace and appreciate my own company
I was afraid of my uniqueness
Until I learned that it was where my greatness lay
I was afraid of the darkness
Until I remembered that I was the light
And I was afraid of life
Until I remembered who I was.
Tahlia Hunter
October 2, 2023 @ 8:14 am
I can conquer the World with a Blink. I can Heal a Broken Heart with a Smile.
Beloved Rumi….♦️
Cute…Thanks for sharing
September 28, 2023 @ 12:09 pm
I was afraid of being rejected
Until I learned to never reject myself
I was afraid of being abandoned
Until I learned to never abandon myself
I was afraid of the opinions of others
Until I learned that they held no more weight than my own
I was afraid of painful endings
Until I realised that they were also new beginnings
I was afraid of appearing weak
Until I realised how strong I truly was
I was afraid of being seen as small and unimportant
Until I discovered my true power and potential
I was afraid of being perceived as ugly
Until I learned to fully appreciate my own beauty
I was afraid of failure
Until I learned that it was an illusion
When viewed through the eyes of love, growth and learning
I was afraid of feeling low
Until I learned that it was the birthplace of brilliance
And where my greatest transformation occurred
I was afraid of change
Until I realised it was an inevitable part of life
In a world full of things temporary and fleeting
I was afraid of being alone
Until I learned to fully embrace and appreciate my own company
I was afraid of my uniqueness
Until I learned that it was where my greatness lay
I was afraid of the darkness
Until I remembered that I was the light
And I was afraid of life
Until I remembered who I was.
Words by Tahlia Hunter
Thanks to the person who shared this.
September 26, 2023 @ 3:05 pm
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Without forgiveness there is no hope; without forgiveness there is no peace. Forgiveness is the oxygen that purifies the air of hatred; it is the antidote to the poisons of resentment; it is the way to defuse anger and heal so many maladies of the heart. -Die Pope
September 26, 2023 @ 7:57 am
AndallthankstoFatherandHisteamforappointingsuchagoodhumanbeing@ourdistrict😎
September 25, 2023 @ 2:17 pm
Our Only True Friend
Man is really always alone but he thinks, and wrongly so, that he has a host of friends, possessions and attachments. At last, a time comes when he is disillusioned, and if he happens to be a satsangi, he realizes that the only real and true friend is the Master.
If we are not attached and have no expectations or unfulfilled desires, the behaviour of other people does not affect us much. After all, it is not the things themselves, but the reaction which they produce upon us which really matters. People of the world also ultimately come to this conclusion after receiving hard knocks and crushing disappointments. But a satsangi gradually and almost imperceptibly loosens the bonds of attachment in this world by devotion to Shabd.
Please have courage and faith in the Master. Now that you have learned the hollowness of the world and its possessions and attachments, you will be able to devote all your attention assiduously to simran and listening to the Sound whenever possible. As you very well know, simran or the repetition of the five holy Names is the foundation of this spiritual practice. It is by means of worldly simran, thinking of the things of this world, that we have become denizens of this plane and strangers to our own home. Therefore, we should gradually, by means of spritual simran, draw up our consciousness to the centre above the eyes, and then the Sound will automatically take care of us. We only have to do our duty and may thoroughly rest assured that the Master will do his duty; that is, he will take us at the proper time. All that is necessary is that we turn our back to the world and face the Master. He is always there to receive and welcome us with open arms.
Maharaj Charan Singh, Light on Sant Mat
September 25, 2023 @ 1:08 pm
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September 24, 2023 @ 11:45 am
“One of the most important
things you can do on this earth
is to let people know
they are not alone.”
-SHANNON L. ADLER
💖
September 23, 2023 @ 6:33 pm
Your heart and my
heart are very, verY
old friends
-Hafiz 🌟
September 21, 2023 @ 9:20 pm
Thanks to those who hurt me, you made me a stronger person…
Thanks to those who loved me, you made my heart bigger…
Thanks to those who cared, you made me feel important…
Thanks to those who worried, you let me know that you care…
Thanks to those who left, you showed me that not everything is forever…
Thanks to those who stayed, you showed me the meaning of true friends…
Thanks to those who entered my life, You helped me become the person I am today.
Insight Feelings……♦️
September 19, 2023 @ 10:06 am
” We are all as Flowers in God’s garden …. ❤️
God created the flowers to bring beauty to the earth and joy
… to the world.
Each flower is unique, … some are beautiful as a single bloom …but many times it is more beautiful to see them together.
That can be a lovely parallel to … how we each come together … and complement,” the strengths, weakness, gifting and needs ” of each other.
Together ” we are more powerful, more complete”, although individually we are also beautiful … in “our own way”.
Do you ever feel insignificant, like God wouldn’t pick you from His garden?
He doesn’t see one gifting or appearance …” as better than another”.
None of us is ” less important to Him”!
We are all supposed to be different. And we are pleasing to Him if we fulfill the specific call and purpose He created us to be.
We are only to be ourselves, not like someone else.
Whatever type God created you to be, … it is not just for us to keep to ourselves … but “our beauty, our aroma, our gifting are to be used for ” the benefit of those around us”!
Just as in the bouqet, “each of us is important to the whole”!
Even those who feel small or insignificant have a role to play.
Even a beautiful rose is more breathtaking when enhanced by subtle baby’s breath and a simple green fern.
The contrast of the bright and soft colors, the larger and smaller blossoms, add to the ” beautiful complete bouquet that we are … in God’s varied beautiful garden.” ❤️
September 15, 2023 @ 10:29 am
Spentalargepartofthedayindurbantoday.wenttomysistersfavouriterestuarantcalled’Omysoul’.Mealwasokbutcompanywasfab😇
NowIamsoexhaustedthatmyauntisgivingmeamassage.😄toldmomthatoldageiscatchingupwithme.momsaidtomethatsheknowsthatmyauntismassagingmeforyearsandthishasnothingtodowitholdage🤣AndthatIamluckythatmyauntlovesmesomuchandshecandieinpeaceknowingthatIaminsafehands.whyaremomssocrazy,beatsme.Ineedtosleep,heatgottometoday
September 11, 2023 @ 6:51 am
Thanks to the Author for sharing…a good Reminder hey?
O God, I’m putting my whole life in your hands now. I don’t know what’s good for me and I don’t know where life is taking me. I’m letting go, I surrender to your Wish. I trust You to take care of everything.
O God, it is Your mercy that I hope for, so do not leave me in charge of myself even for the blink of an eye, and rectify for me all of my affairs.
Insight Feelings….??
September 10, 2023 @ 10:51 am
Sometime the strongest people
are the ones who love beyond all faults.
Cry behind closed door and
fight battles that nobody know about.
Unknown
September 10, 2023 @ 6:13 am
Missed U Dr J…although you are probably very upset with me.
Take care of yourself?
September 10, 2023 @ 2:37 am
Not Fun Time but Serious time !
Never entertain negative energy.
Some situations will test your patience and try to make you overreact, overthink, and respond to things that don’t deserve your life force.
What a lot of people understand is …. your attention is your power.
Never feed what doesn’t add value to your life.
~ Cody Bret
Yes,most people haveimagestomaintainsowillalwayssaythepoliticallycorrectwordsetcunordertibeineveryonesgoodbooksespeciallytheheadhonchesgoodbooksandpeoplestriveyoearnbrowniepointswiththeheadhonchesanndactlikesaintsinfrontofthemandwhattheydoprivatelyisanotherstorysonobrowniepointsfromFatherasHeseesandknowseverything.
HavingsaidthatMomisNOThappywithmystraightforwardnessespeciallytourdistrictpeople.shesaidwhatsdoneisdonebutDONOTREPEATthisandTRYyourverybesttodoitfirthehFATHERwhomuadoreandIagreed.iwillNOTcommentinanythinganymoreregardingurdistrict.iamavisitoraturplaceandmustknowmylumitshey.
September 9, 2023 @ 2:01 pm
AssumemakesanassofUandme?
Mycousinsdad,mumsbrotherwasconfidinginmeandpouringhisheartouttomeandiwasjustlistening.mrJ.BulthesecreyarywasgoingpastandjoinedinchattingtomyuncleandmyuncleshockedmewhenhestartedtellinghisproblemstohimforquiteawhileandiwasjustaspectatorbutsomanywerewalkingupanfdownlookingatmesuspiciouslyassumingthatIampouringmyhearttothesecretary?thereisnothingicandoaboutthisanfifpeoplewanttoassuumestuffletitbe.itisnotinorderformetoraiseissueswiththesecretary.thereareenoughpeopletohandlestuffanditseemsthateveryoneisveryhappywitheveryonesworksoimaginethehavocifiraiseanyissue?gladuguysarespunitedanndacceptingofeachotherregardlessifrulesarefollowedorotherwise.tootiredtodaysogoingtosleepnow.?
September 8, 2023 @ 1:16 am
JusttoletuknowthatIdidnotasktheindianstosendmyreplyasmomsconcernedaboutmybroinlawsimage.momsaresecondtoGodsoshouldbetakenseriouslyandsheiscorrect.
Peaceforall??
September 7, 2023 @ 10:55 am
Momsaysitsagoodideatokeepalowprofileandstayawayfromyourdistrictforthisyear.nohardfeelings.FatherwilldealwithallHischildrenaccordingly.alltgebestandtakecare
September 7, 2023 @ 12:16 am
Yes,Iguessthisyoungscatterbrainsuddenlyfeltabitfocusedat3.00am soemailedmyapprovalandwhatsappedalsoat3.00am.HethinksthatheisKabirSaabdeliveringmuskat3.00am.Hewassointixicatedbyallthislightandsoundthathebecameobliousabouteverythingandforgottosendmomsapprovalreplyaswell?
Thatshowtheworldworkshey.theywanttoprovokeuandangerUthenhaveacommitteemeetingafterwardsdiscussingthepersontheyprovoked?Toobadmyfriend,Irefusetotakeonmafiastylepeoplewhothrowtheirauthorityaroundandlookdownonothersandtryandprovokepeopletostartabigfire.Fatherwillbeveryproudofhowuguysconductyourselves.Keepitup?
September 6, 2023 @ 5:28 pm
WhywouldanyoneinurdistrictdeliberatelywithholdtheapprovalrepliesfromFathersHome?Yes,Ididrequestitlastweekandthisbusyveeyimportantyoungmansaysheistravellingsowillsendonwednesday.TodayiswednesdayandIwhatsappedremindinghimtosendaswerequirethecopyforhotelbookingandvisaandhesaidheisbusyandwillsendtonightandtheserepliesweresentawhilebackfromheadquarters.thequestioniswhyishewithholdingreplies.heissadlymistakenifheassumesthatwewillbeghimforreplies.ifheissoattachedtothereplieshecankeepitunderhismattressforsafekeeping.iwillrequestcopiesdirectlyfromheadquarters.IdontlikedoingthisbutIamforcedtohetcopyofapprovalreplyfromheadquartersbecausethisyoungmanenjoysplayinghideandseekwithrepliesandenjoyshidingitfromusIhavenotimeforgamesorarguments.iwilldotheneedfulandgetcopiessomeotherway!
September 5, 2023 @ 4:37 am
HAPPY TEACHERS’ DAY!
IF THERE WERE
NO TEACHERS,
ALL OTHER PROFESSIONS
WOULD NOT EXIST.
September 5, 2023 @ 1:56 am
??My Mom??
My Mom once told me that she walked into a room where a couple of friends were discussing her, they didn’t know she was there.
She shook her head, smiled and walked away.
My Mom also told me that she had a friend who talked bad about her, she never knew that Mom found out, Mom never mentioned it.
She smiled and walked away from this friendship.
She told me she had family who chose to shift her out of their life because she stood up for herself for a change.
And because she stopped crossing oceans for them when they would not even help her cross a bridge.
She smiled, shook her head and walked away.
So I asked her how she could just walk away from people that betrayed her while pretending to be her friends or family.
She answered that every time she came to a crossroad like that, she had to decide who will be going forward on her journey with her.
This showed her who she cannot take along with her.
So she explained to me that you should never get mad at a person who betrays you, even in the name of friendship or family.
Just Gracefully bow out and Enjoy your Journey with all the New People you’ll meet Along the Way.?
September 5, 2023 @ 12:18 am
That person to whom you can actually tell the truth when they ask, “How are you?”,
is the one you …
should hold on to
should handle with care
should treasure
And never take for granted
For they are rare and so very special Best Friend for life material!?
This could be anyone, a friend, family bagera bagera. The secret is to NOT let them know that you are aware of their bad intention for U. Actually it is none of my business what others think about me Right! Father is in charge of punishing us ALL accordingly.
As you sow…you will Reap!
Jaise karni, jaise barni!
Let everyone think that u are an ‘ Emotional Fool and gets provoked by all their games etc.
Let them discuss you and transfer their good karma ( if they have any left) to u?
Let your relative even go and have a secret meeting with one of officials to continously badmouth U…..and being well connected, U will get a REPORT of who and what they said about U?
Cmon Yaar.. .why are people engaging in futile and frivolous gossip to earn brownie points with officials. Some people want to stagnate at kindergarten level and it is their wish not to use common sense and TRY to earn brownie points with Father who is the actual doer.
None of us are perfect but we can just do our best and leave the rest to Father. He knows what’s best for us and we should happily accept HIS will. Amen!
A snake began to chase a firefly that only lived to shine. The firefly stopped and said to the snake:
“Can I ask you three questions?”
The snake said, “Yes.”
– Do I belong to your food chain ?
The snake said, “No.”
Did I do anything to you?
The snake said, “No.”
Then why you wanna devour me?
“The snake replied, “”Cause I can’t stand to see you shine.””.
Moral of the story…
Often, some people can’t stand to see you shine, and that’s why they act like snakes, silent and ready to destroy you!
The bitter truth
Author Unknown
September 4, 2023 @ 11:16 pm
Living the Inspiration of Sri Ramana Maharshi
Maalok: Ramana Maharshi has had a lasting influence on your life. For those of us who don’t know much about the Maharshi, could you please share some of the salient aspects of his life that have influenced you deeply.
David: About two or three times a year someone asks me this question, ‘Summarise Ramana Maharshi’s life and teachings in a few words for people who know little or nothing about him’. It’s always hard to know where to start with a question like this.
Let me say first that Ramana Maharshi was one of the most highly regarded and widely respected spiritual figures that twentieth-century India produced. I can’t think of any other candidate who is as persistently held out to be an example of all that is best in the Hindu spiritual tradition. Everyone reveres him as the perfect example of what a true saint and sage ought to be.
How did this come about? While he was still in his teens Sri Ramana underwent a remarkable, spontaneous experience in which his individuality died, leaving him in a state in which he found his true identity to be the Self, the immanent and transcendent substratum. It was a permanent awakening that was truly remarkable because he had not previously had any interest in spiritual matters. He left his family home a few weeks later, without telling anyone where he was going, and spent the remainder of his life at the foot of Arunachala, a holy mountain and pilgrimage centre that is about 120 miles south west of Chennai.
After a few years there – a period in which he was largely oblivious to the world and his body – he began to attract devotees because there was a spiritual radiance emanating from him that many people around him experienced as peace or happiness. This, I think, is the secret of his subsequent fame and popularity. He didn’t get a reputation for being a great sage because of what he did or said. It came about because people, who arrived at his ashram with all kinds of questions and doubts, suddenly found themselves becoming quiet, peaceful and happy in his presence. There was a continuous, benign flow of energy coming off him that somehow evaporated the mental anxieties and busy minds of the people who came to see him. He didn’t ask people to come. People just came of their own accord. A 19th century American author once wrote that if you invent a better mousetrap, even if you try to hide yourself in the woods, people will beat a path to your door. People beat a path to Sri Ramana’s door – for many years he lived in very inaccessible places – because he had something far better than an improved mousetrap to offer; he had a natural ability to induce peace in the people around him.
Let me expand on this because this is the key to understanding both his state and the effect he had on other people. When he had his final experience at the age of sixteen, his mind, his sense of being an individual person, vanished forever, leaving him in a state of unassailable peace. He realised and understood that this was not some new experience that was mediated by and through his ‘I’, his sense of being an individual person. It was, instead, his natural state, something that is there all the time, but which is only experienced when the mind and its perpetual busy-ness is absent. By abiding in this natural and effortless state of inner silence he somehow charged up the atmosphere around him with a healing, quietening energy. People who came to see him spontaneously became happy, peaceful and quiet. Why? Because Sri Ramana himself was effortlessly broadcasting his own experience of happiness, peace and quietude in such a way that those people who were around him got an inner taste, an inner flavor of this natural state that is inherent to all of us. I should say that this power was not restricted to his physical vicinity, although it did seem to be stronger there. People who merely thought about him wherever they happened to be discovered that they could experience something of this peace simply through having this mental contact with him.
So, having given that background, I can now answer the question: ‘Who was Ramana Maharshi and what were his teachings?’
Sri Ramana Maharshi was a living embodiment of peace and happiness and his ‘teachings’ were the emanations of that state which helped other people to find and experience their own inner happiness and peace.
If all this sounds a little abstract, let me tell you a story that was passed on to me by Arthur Osborne’s daughter. In the 1940s their house was a kind of dormitory for all the stray foreigners who couldn’t find anywhere else to stay near Sri Ramana’s ashram. A miserable, crabby women appeared one evening, having been sent by the ashram. They put her up, gave her breakfast and sent her off to see Sri Ramana the next morning. She came back at lunchtime looking absolutely radiant. She was glowing with happiness. The whole family was waiting to hear the story of what happened, but she never said anything about her visit to the ashram. Everyone in the house was expecting some dramatic story: ‘He looked at me and this happened,’ or ‘I asked a question and then I had this great experience’. As the lunch plates were being cleared away, her hosts could not contain their curiosity any longer.
‘What happened?’ asked one of them. ‘What did Bhagavan do to you? What did he say to you?’
The woman looked most surprised. ‘He didn’t do anything. He didn’t say anything to me. I just sat there for the whole morning and then came back for lunch.’
She had been just one new person sitting in a crowd of people, but the power coming off Sri Ramana had been enough to wash away a lifetime of depression, leaving her with a taste of what lay underneath it: her own inherent, natural happiness and peace.
Sri Ramana knew that transformations such as these were going on around him all the time, but he never accepted responsibility for them. He would never say, ‘I transformed this woman’. When he was asked about the effect he was having on people, he would sometimes say that by continuously abiding in his own natural state of peace, a sannidhi, a powerful presence, was somehow created that automatically took care of the mental problems of the people who visited him. By abiding in silence as silence, this energy field was created, a field that miraculously transformed the people around him.
Your original question was, ‘Why has Ramana Maharshi influenced me so much?’ The answer is, ‘I came into his sannidhi and through its catalytic activity I discovered my own peace, my own happiness.’
_ David Godman?
September 3, 2023 @ 11:16 am
“O musician of my soul,
play His song
play His song with every breath ” -Rumi ?
Alias John Tesh
September 1, 2023 @ 11:23 am
Stupidity combined with arrogance and a huge ego will get you a long way.
?//?//?
Hybo?
Someone extremely intellige3t and Humble could have written above. May this soul continue to be Blessed always.?
August 30, 2023 @ 1:32 pm
“Take care” is such a wonderful greeting.
It means: “Be careful where you go”,
“Don’t get hurt”,
“Don’t let others trample all over you”,
“Walk up straight and be proud”.
It is also a tender message that says:
“I am worried about you”.
“When you go I hope to see you soon again”,
because it doesn’t sound like a final goodbye.
It also means “You have a friend in me”,
“I always carry you in my heart, in my prayers”
Take Care……??
August 28, 2023 @ 2:17 pm
Today instead of holding Guru’s
hand,
I held my hand to the master
Because, I could accidentally leave
the Guru’s hand
But, I believe that if Guru holds the
hand, He will never leave…
August 26, 2023 @ 8:31 am
WoW…thanks for sharing ?
The Pearl
Everyone is so afraid of death, but the real Sufis just laugh.
Nothing tyrannizes their hearts.
What strikes the oyster shell doesn’t damage the pearl.
Rumi ?
August 22, 2023 @ 11:33 am
Just a wish and blessing from my
??
MAY YOU BE STRONG AND
COURAGIOUS TO …
never turn back when
disappointment raise
its head
never disappoint when
you are a trusted one
never stop trying when
you don’t succeed
never become prideful
when you achieve
never remain down when
you fall
never become bitter when
you are hated, rejected
or ignored
May your hurt be just enough
to make you gentle and soft
and grateful for the good.
May the sun
on your journey
shine bright
and your baggage always
be light
May joy knock on your door
very early every morning
and stay through
the night …
?Written by A Friend ?
August 21, 2023 @ 3:37 am
Thank you to the special people
in my life. I may not say it often,
but I love you and know that you
are there for me. BIG HUG!
August 16, 2023 @ 9:29 am
Many thanks to the Messenger who sent the below article to the Langhar group to our family. We agree with this important message about obedience that applies to everyone as per Father’s guidelines.
Just for the record, our family basically takes instructions at your Church. Mom says that the objective of Churchwork is to become humble. Well, I was not agreeing with her at one time cos I felt that we need to have ‘self respect’ and stay away from a place where we are NOT welcome. Her answer did make sense when she stated that even if people want to take ownership of all the churchwork and the building etc…that is between them and Father. It in NONE of our business how the Management views us cos the Master confirmed with us that ‘where there are people , there are politics’ and requested me to TRY and NOT react to all this and I will be fine.
Recently our family was HUMILIATED by your Church when the Master visited in March.
Everyone knows ( especially the Master can hear and see everything) what transpired and NOTHING was done about it. They were ALLOWED to abuse old people and accuse them of NOT paying for meals. All meals were given away to hotel staff that we ordered cos it was considered Haraam food.
I am just taking instructions from Mom to cooperate and be part of sewa when I’m requested to do so and do it wholeheartedly for Father even if others still are not happy with me being around as the place actually belongs to Father and we ALL are just His sewadars and He expects us to have harmony amongst us.
Never mind that ur district did SIN to our family members. This is NOT for us to query about or sort out but Father’s job to handle all these Discipliniary issues. He knows best. Maybe U guys can tolerate this disgusting behaviour towards old people but Karma dies NOT forget an address right!?
THE RULES APPLY TO ALL IN FATHERS BOOKS?
Have a Blessed afternoon and take extra care of yourself?
Thanks again for these beautiful reminder that was sent for our family?
OBEDIENCE
Taking instructions from each other
Most of us do not get an opportunity to interact directly with
the master; we get our instructions through an intermediary.
While we are willing to obey the master, sometimes we find it
difficult to take instructions from another sevadar who is in
charge. But we should appreciate the fact that most sevadars
are doing their best to carry out the will of the master
Seva means to do what we are asked to do. Not what we
want to do, not what we think should be done, just what we are
asked to do. When we come to seva, let us be willing to perform
any task. Let us offer ourselves unconditionally and let those
in charge decide how best to use our services.
Remain watchful for his command; keep in mind the
guru’s words and act accordingly. He may order you to
cut grass – for you that is the highest honour. Welcome
it wholeheartedly as sweetness itself. Test your mind in
this manner; only then is the work complete
BABA JAIMAL SINGH’74
August 15, 2023 @ 10:14 am
Fun Time ?
Forgive me
Father; for
Ihave
sinned.
Father-
I know. I read
all about it on
Facebook.?
Father sees and hears everything hey??
August 14, 2023 @ 3:48 am
Kudos to the Messenger
For these Gems
Don’t chase
anyone.
Don’t beg someone
to stay.
know your worth.
Save space for
people who
matter.
Accept what
cannot be
changed.
Leave what isn’t
for you.
* failure is part of
successo
Love yourself.?
August 14, 2023 @ 2:11 am
Hey Dr J…Hope U R keeping well.
Yes, we do have a strong divine connection with each other but it is quite obvious that you are NOT comfortable around me hey and I understand ? I won’t ask u why? Cos maybe I did something bad to U in my past life and only U remember so ur decision makes sense to U.
Well, there is no need to have rany animosity towards each other as we all are just going through karma and NOTHING is personal. And although we all are accountable for our actions, sometimes karma dictates us to behave in a certain manner and we are powerless to do otherwise.
And I went to church yesterday in ur district cos I had church duty. So don’t be worried that I will come next week …or ff week Sunday. We have a church here for me to go to.
It is NOT fair for u to be uncomfortable in your own district hey. No hard feelings dear and …Friends Forever??
August 13, 2023 @ 8:53 am
…..Life is….
….a series..
………of…..
…Moments..
…..floating…
…….away….
………like…
…..balloons
……..in the..
………wind….
~via Reginald M~
My eyes searched for Him but He chose to keep away…..??
August 10, 2023 @ 10:39 pm
Surrender to Grace
The ocean cares for each wave until it reaches the shore. You are given more help than you will ever know. -Rumi?
Beas Mera Rab Vasda
August 10, 2023 @ 5:42 pm
A love letter from a child to a parent…
Thank you for loving me
When I was most difficult to love
Thank you for showing up for me
When it was most hard to reach me
Thank you for believing in me
When I didn’t believe in myself
Thank you for supporting me
When I felt unsupported by the world
Thank you for reassuring me
When I appeared inconsolable
Thank you for your words of wisdom and advice
Even when they were tough to hear
Thank you for always wanting the best for me
Regardless of the circumstances
And thank you for always being there for me
Even when it felt like I didn’t appreciate or see
Everything you did for me.
As I have grown
I have come to appreciate the many sacrifices you made
To build a better future for me
All of the love you gave me
All of the sleepless nights
All of the mundane moments and milestones you were there to witness and experience
And everything in-between
All of the concerts, sporting events and ceremonies you attended
Beaming proudly
All of the photos you took, the memories we made and special times we shared
And all of the precious moments that you spent with me.
As I have grown
I can now better appreciate
How strong you were for me:
The tears you held back
And the smile you wore
So that I wouldn’t see how much you were secretly struggling at times behind the scenes
And now having left home
I can now appreciate
All you have truly done for me.
Thank you for doing the best you could
Thank you for continuing to be an incredible presence in my life
And above all
Thank you for always seeing the best in me
And loving me
And though I am now fully grown
I will always be your little child
And when I go on to one day have a family of my own
I hope that I can make you proud
By being half the parent
That you were to me.
Words by Tahlia Hunter
August 9, 2023 @ 12:20 am
Precious Gems by beloved Rumi to enlighten our souls and sparkle our day???
There is a morning inside you waiting to burst open into light.
Who gets up early to discover the moment light begins?
Don’t you know yet? It is your Light that lights the worlds.
If the Beautiful One is not inside you, then what is that Light hidden under your cloak?
Your light is more magnificent than sunrise or sunset.
Your body is woven from the Light of Heaven.
Although you appear in earthly form Your essence is pure Consciousness. You are the fearless guardian of Divine Light.
Nothing can nourish the SOUL but LIGHT.
Love is the soul’s light, the taste of morning, no me, no we, no claim of being.
Your task? To work with all the passion of your being to acquire an inner light.
You have no need to travel anywhere – journey within yourself. Enter a mine of rubies and bathe in the splendor of your own light.
Every moment is made glorious by the light of love.
Let us carve gems out of our stony hearts and let them light our path to love.
-Rumi ????
August 7, 2023 @ 11:15 am
No one is capable of
making you upset without
your consent, so if you
begin practicing the
intention to be authentic
and peaceful with
everyone, you connect to
peace itself
The grass withers, the
flower fades, But the
word of our God
stands forever
Isaiah 40:8
All is Well?
August 7, 2023 @ 5:04 am
If you truly
love Someone,
then the only thing
you want for them
is to be happy, even
if it’s not with you…
I feel positive energy from U and appreciate and Respect U very much. However , if U feel that it’s necessary that we don’t cross paths I understand Dr J and will NOT put U in an uncomfortable situation
Take care of yourself?
August 7, 2023 @ 2:05 am
???
*_?”I once asked a bird, how is it that you fly in this gravity of darkness? She responded, ‘love lifts me.'”_*
??
Copied as is
August 6, 2023 @ 12:06 am
One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people.
He said, “My son, the battle is between two wolves inside us all”
“It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil – he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.” He continued, “The other is good – he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same fight is going on inside you – and inside every other person, too.”
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, “Which wolf will win?”
The old Cherokee simply replied, “The one you feed”.
August 5, 2023 @ 11:49 pm
???
*_THOUGHT FOR THE DAY_*
*_SUNDAY 06 AUGUST 2023_*
*_To be grateful is to recognize the love of God in everything He has given us – and He has given us everything. Every breath we draw is a gift of his love, every moment of existence is a grace, for it brings with it immense graces from Him. Gratitude therefore takes nothing for granted, is never unresponsive, is constantly awakening to new wonder and to praise of the goodness of God. For the grateful person knows that God is good, not by hearsay but by experience. And that is what makes all the difference.!!_*??
August 5, 2023 @ 8:32 am
Thanks to the Messenger
One day Rumi was
reading next to a large stack of books.
Shams Tabriz, passing by,
asked him,
“What are you doing?”
Rumi scoffingly replied,
“Something you cannot understand.” On hearing this, Shams threw the stack of books into a nearby pool
of water. Rumi hastily rescued the books and to his surprise they were all dry. Rumi then asked Shams,
“What is this?”
To which Shams replied,
“Mawlana,
this is what you cannot understand.
That was the time when
Mawlana Rumi became his disciple.?
August 5, 2023 @ 3:15 am
From Mr Anon…many Thanks
One Thing , Many Names
As one and the same water is called by different names in different languages, one calling it ‘water’ , another ‘vari’ , a third ‘ aqua , and a fourth ‘pani’ , so the one Sachichidananda.
Absolute Being- Intelligence —- Bliss , is invoked by some as God , by some as Allah, by some as Hari and by others as Brahmn.
—–WE must remember to PUT THE GLASS OF WATER DOWN and feel LIGHT hey?
August 3, 2023 @ 8:30 am
POWERS WORTH A PENNY
Two monks left their master and sought for the Buddhist Way. They practiced different methods in cultivation. The elder monk practiced supernatural/psychic power, while the younger monk practiced reciting Buddha’s name in cultivation.
After a few years, the two monks came back to visit their master. They met each other in the jetty, waiting for the boat to take them across the river.
Soon the boat came. Suddenly the elder monk jumped into the river. With his psychic power he drifted on the surface of water and crossed the river quickly. The younger monk took the boat and crossed the river slowly. After that, he gave the boatman a penny for the fare.
The elder monk showed his self satisfaction and said arrogantly to the younger monk, “What have you attained after you cultivated the past few years? See, I have attained the psychic power.”
The younger monk did not care what the other monk asked and replied, “Oh, it is just worth a penny!”
August 3, 2023 @ 8:24 am
” How beautiful to find a heart
that loves you, without asking
you for anything, but to be okay.”
August 3, 2023 @ 8:00 am
“Her secret is simple. On her worst days, she prays. And on her best days, she prays.”
July 30, 2023 @ 12:37 am
One day a farmer’s donkey fell into a well. The animal cried loudly for hours, while the farmer tried to find something to do to get him out.
Finally, the farmer decided that the donkey was old and the well was already dry and needed to be covered anyway; that it really wasn’t worth pulling the donkey out of the well..
He invited all his neighbors to come help him. They each grabbed a shovel and began to throw dirt into the well.
The donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly loud. Then, to everyone’s surprise, he quieted down after a few shovelfuls of dirt.
The farmer finally looked down into the well and was amazed at what he saw… with each shovelful of dirt, the donkey was doing something incredible: It was shaking off the dirt and stepping on top of the dirt.
Very soon everyone saw surprised how the donkey reached the mouth of the well, went over the edge and trotted out…
Life is going to throw dirt at you, all kinds of dirt… the trick to getting out of the hole is to shake it off and use it to step up. Each of our problems is a step up. We can get out of the deepest holes if we don’t give up…
Use the land they throw you to get ahead!!!
Remember the 5 rules to be happy:
1. Free your heart from hate.
2. Free your Mind of distractions.
3. Simplify your life.
4. Give more and expect less.
5. Love more and… shake the dirt, because in this life you have to be a solution, not the problem!?
July 29, 2023 @ 10:08 pm
The God within.
“I searched for God among
the Christians and on the Cross
and therein I found Him not.
I went into the ancient temples
of idolatry; no trace of Him was
there.
I entered the mountain cave
of Hira and then went as far
as Qandhar but God I found not.
With set purpose I fared to the
summit of Mount Caucasus and
found there only ‘anqa’s habitation.
Then I directed my search to the
Kaaba, the resort of old and
young; God was not there even.
Turning to philosophy, I inquired
about Him from ibn Sina but found
Him not within his range.
I fared then to the scene of the
Prophet’s experience of a great
Divine manifestation only a “two
bow-lengths’ distance from him,”
but God was not there even in
that exalted court.
Finally, I looked into my own
heart and there I saw Him;
He was nowhere else.
I looked in temples, churches
and mosques, but found the Divine
within my heart.”
Beloved Rumi….?????
July 29, 2023 @ 12:50 pm
Whatever happens to you…
Don’t fall in despair,
Even if all the doors are closed…
A secret path will be there for you that no one knows,
You can’t see it yet…
But so many paradises are at the end of this path,
Be grateful…
It is easy to thank after obtaining what you want…
Thank before having what you want.
-Shams-i Tabrizi
July 28, 2023 @ 2:13 pm
Kindred spirits recognize each other
by sight and understand each other without words.
July 27, 2023 @ 3:49 pm
Listening to some 80’s music?
After so long listening to Madonnas song La Isla Bonita …..think I am going back in time?
July 24, 2023 @ 9:58 pm
PLANT THREE ROWS OF PEAS:
1. Peace of mind
2. Peace of heart
3. Peace of soul
PLANT FOUR ROWS OF SQUASH:
1. Squash gossip
2. Squash indifference
3. Squash grumbling
4. Squash selfishness
PLANT FOUR ROWS OF LETTUCE:
1. Lettuce be faithful
2. Lettuce be kind
3. Lettuce be patient
4. Lettuce really love one another
PLANT THREE ROWS OF TURNIPS:
1. Turnip for meetings
2. Turnip for service
3. Turnip to help one another
GARDENS MUST HAVE THYME:
1. Thyme for each other
2. Thyme for family
3. Thyme for friends
WATER FREELY WITH PATIENCE AND CULTIVATE WITH LOVE. THERE IS MUCH FRUIT IN YOUR GARDEN BECAUSE YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW.
-Author unknown?
July 24, 2023 @ 9:26 pm
Patience visited me..
And it reminded me
That good things take time to come to fruition
And grow slowly with stability
Peace visited me
And it reminded me
That I may remain calm through the storms of life
Regardless of the chaos surrounding me
Hope visited me
And it reminded me
That better times lay ahead
And it would always be there to guide and uplift me
Humility visited me
And it reminded me
That I may achieve it
Not by trying to shrink myself and make myself less
But by focusing on serving the world and uplifting those around me
Kindness visited me
And it reminded me
To be more gentle, forgiving and compassionate toward myself
And those surrounding me
Confidence visited me
And it reminded me
To not conceal or suppress my gifts and talents
In order to make others feel more comfortable
But to embrace what makes me me
Focus visited me
And it reminded me
That other people’s insecurities and judgements about me
Are not my problem
And I should redirect my attention
From others back to me
Freedom visited me
And it reminded me
That no one has control over my mindset, thoughts and wellbeing
But me
And love visited me
And it reminded me
That I need not search for it in others
As it lies within me.
– Tahlia Hunter
@everyone
July 23, 2023 @ 6:31 am
I need your help Dr J!
I know that U don’t want to have anything to do with me and it is ok but I do know that you are a fine leader who can guide and encourage a person and if you have the time and comfortable in helping me please guide my brother along.
He is NOT in a good space at all but good at disguising it.
I don’t have any idea how this can be possible and if it is at all possible but very worried about him.
If u feel that it is not in order, I will understand.
July 22, 2023 @ 12:46 pm
On the Supreme Identity
God – may He be exalted – said to me, “Do you know who you are?” I replied, “Yes. I am the non-being which is manifested by Your manifestation. I am the darkness which Your light illuminates.
Then He said to me, “Since you know this, persevere firmly (in this knowledge) and be careful not to claim that which does not belong to you: for the deposit must be returned to its owner and the loan must be paid back. The name “contingent being” has always belonged to you and will always belong to you.
He said to me again, “Do you know who you are?” I replied, “Yes, I am in reality God, (the real). But metaphorically and in relation to the Way, I am Creature. I am a contingent being with respect to my form, but I cannot be the necessary Being. It is the Divine Name which belongs to me by original right; the name of creature is only a borrowed name and a formula of differentiation. He said to me, “Veil this symbol; and let the wall fall down and bury this Treasure, in order that only he will be able to extract it who has put him a soul through severe trials and looked his death in the face.”
Then God – may He be exalted – said to me, “What are you?” I replied, “I am two things, according to two different relations. With respect to You, I am the Eternal, forever and ever. I am the necessary Being who epiphanizes himself. My necessity proceeds from the necessity of Your essence and my eternity from the eternity of Your Knowledge and Your attributes.”
“With respect to me, I am pure non-being who has never breathed the perfume of existence, the adventitious being who remains nonexistent in his adventitiousness. I only possess being so long as I am present with You and for You. Left to myself and absent from You I am one who is not, even while he is.”
Then He said to me, “And who am I?” I replied, “You are the Being, necessary through Itself, alone perfect in Its essence and Its attributes. Better yet: You transcend by the perfection of Your essence and the perfection of Your attributes. You are the Perfect in every state, the Transcendent with respect to everything which can come to the mind.”
He replied to me, “You do not know Me!”
I said to Him without fear of being disrespectful, “You are He in Whose likeness all contingent creatures are. You are the Lord and the servant, the near and the far. You are the One and the multiple, the Sublime and the lowly, the Rich and the poor, the worshiper and the Worshipped, the contemplater and the Contemplated. In You are joined the contraries and opposites. For You are the apparent and the Hidden, the voyager and the sedentary. He who sows and He who cultivates. You are He who plays, who tricks and deceives. You are the supreme Reality and I am the supreme Reality. You are the creature and I am the creature. You are neither this not that and I am neither this nor that.”
He said to me, “That is enough. You know me! Hide Me from those who know Me not. For Lordship has a secret and if it were revealed, Lordship would be annihilated. And servitude also has a secret, and if it were revealed, servitude would be annihilated. Praise Us for what We have taught you about Ourself: for you cannot know Us by any other than Us. Nothing leads to Us except Ourself!”
– Emir Abd el-Kader al-Jazairi
July 22, 2023 @ 12:04 pm
I don’t have
ego problem, I have
respect problem. When I
sense disrespect, I just
leave no matter who you are.
This is a DISTURBING MESSAGE!
If Dr J sent this message for our family then we will give him his space and TRY NOT to come to his district Church.
No hard feelings but U should NOT be uncomfortable in your own Church.
I have a sense of belonging in Beas and that’s cool with me.
You enjoy your Turf dear ??
July 22, 2023 @ 12:00 pm
Come, come, whoever you are.
Wanderer, worshiper, lover of leaving.
It doesn’t matter. Ours is not a caravan of despair. come, even if you have broken your vows a thousand times.
Come, yet again , come , come.
RUMI
July 22, 2023 @ 11:00 am
Thank U to the messenger for this precious gem??
Take hold of the hand of the Master, for without Him the way is full of untold dangers and difficulties. Never for a moment get separated from the Master and never place too much confidence in thy own valour or wisdom. – Rumi??
July 22, 2023 @ 9:02 am
Just checking if U were in Church today?
If U were NOT I noticed someone blasted some beautiful Gospel Songs which was Amazing Grace
But I am NOT sure if it was allowed?
And the SIC asked us to serve pickle and I asked again if it’s allowed cos I don’t want anyone to conduct a special complaint meeting for us? and he said rest assured it is now allowed so they are having pickle every week.
So if u were NOT there, now u have some feedback and U will know whats allowed and whats NOT allowed???
Enjoy ur afternoon Dr J??
July 21, 2023 @ 11:13 am
THE COCKROACH THEORY OF SELF DEVELOPMENT.
At a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and sat on a lady.
She started screaming out of fear.
With a panic-stricken face and trembling voice, she started jumping, with both her hands desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach.
Her reaction was contagious, as everyone in her group also got panicky.
The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but …it landed on another lady in the group.
Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group to continue the drama.
The waiter rushed forward to their rescue.
In the relay of throwing, the cockroach next fell upon the waiter.
The waiter stood firm, composed himself and observed the behaviour of the cockroach on his shirt.
When he was confident enough, he grabbed it with his fingers and threw it out of the restaurant.
Sipping my coffee and watching the amusement, the antenna of my mind picked up a few thoughts and started wondering, was the cockroach responsible for their histrionic behaviour?
If so, then why was the waiter not disturbed?
He handled it near to perfection, without any chaos.
It is not the cockroach, but the inability of those people to handle the disturbance caused by the cockroach, that disturbed the ladies.
I realized that it is not the shouting of my father or my boss or my wife that disturbs me, but it’s my inability to handle the disturbances caused by their shouting that disturbs me.
It’s not the traffic jams on the road that disturbs me, but my inability to handle the disturbance caused by the traffic jam that disturbs me.
More than the problem, it’s my reaction to the problem that creates chaos in my life.
LESSONS-:
I understood I should not react in life.
I should always respond.
The women reacted, whereas the waiter responded.
Reactions are always instinctive whereas responses are always well thought of.
A beautiful way to understand LIFE.
The HAPPY person is not because Everything is RIGHT in his Life.
He is HAPPY because his Attitude towards Everything in his Life is Right!
July 21, 2023 @ 6:50 am
When we put
GOD FIRST,
We will never
be last or Alone….
Yes….we come alone and will go alone but when we feel God’s presence and kinda form a relationship with Him…we NEVER feel alone or left out under any circumstance.
Friendships are all types and some are true and beyond compare…..but all this is karmic so we need NOT depend on anyone or anything for our peace of Mind.
It’s awesome if we enjoy good company of family or friends but we must always bear in mind that this world is just an illusion and should NOT be taken so seriously hey
If things are going good…enjoy
And if not….don’t worry as it won’t last forever as everything is TEMPORARY ?
July 20, 2023 @ 1:53 pm
True Mentors are
as transparent as glass.
They let The Light of
God pass through
Them. – Shams Tabrizi
You are an Awesome Mentot Dr J
..and guides people via so many disguises but a your friend can recognise and sense you hey.
Sweet Dreams
July 18, 2023 @ 1:19 pm
Let’s make peace and not war.
Let’s build and not destroy.
Let’s give and not just take.
Let’s coexist instead of judging.
Let’s love and not hate.????
If you see something good in someone,
please tell them. Be uplifting and encouraging towards others. They need to hear those words.??
It takes a second to bring someone down
and many years for them to heal from that emotional injury.??
Let’s not go through life purposely causing others harm. So many people are already hurt, they don’t need more pain.??
July 18, 2023 @ 12:20 pm
“We choose not randomly each other. We meet only those who already exists in our subconscious.”
— Sigmund Freud
July 18, 2023 @ 9:04 am
Mom was scheduled to leave for Jhb on Thursday and before she can cancel her church duty she gets a call the other day about the menu for saturday?
She acted normal and agreed and cancelled her trip. I asked her why she did that as she already made arrangements to be with her grandson in Jhb???
And she said that she realised she is wrong in wanting to cancel when a commitment is already made. It is ok if it’s done once in awhile but we need to draw the line.
Mom says that she is also NOT setting a very good example for us? I do what I want to do in life…and my Mom is NOT responsible for my actions ?
I told her that these people stopped our Church songs because we enjoy it so I don’t like going where I am tolerated.
She said to me that nothing people do is because of us. We have a commitment to the Master and the task has to be done with focus and love. If we are going to question the management there , whatever church work we do will be in vain as the Master will say…..this task is meant to humble us….and NOT to question each other hey????
Leave the managing of place to the Captains. Mom says that it is our job to take instruction and leave happily.?
July 18, 2023 @ 12:07 am
Love Is a Stranger
Poetry of Jelaluddin Rumi
By Translated by Kabir Helminski
Jelaluddin Rumi’s poem on questing through the darkness.
Search the Darkness
Sit with your friends; don’t go back to sleep.
Don’t sink like a fish to the bottom of the sea.
Surge like an ocean,
don’t scatter yourself like a storm.
Life’s waters flow from darkness.
Search the darkness, don’t run from it.
Night travelers are full of light,
and you are, too; don’t leave this companionship.
Be a wakeful candle in a golden dish,
don’t slip in the dirt like quicksilver.
The moon appears for night travelers,
be watchful when the moon is full.?
July 17, 2023 @ 8:52 am
If you want to experience eternal illumination, put the past and the future out of your mind and remain within the present moment.
Shams Tabrizi ????
July 17, 2023 @ 8:48 am
Fun…fun and more fun….Masti hey?
And he just thought of this idea to get a REACTION from her……and her REACTION shocked him when she said He must have FUN ?????
She kinda knows him although he assumes that she does NOT know him from Adam ?
July 16, 2023 @ 10:33 am
I prayed for change,
so I changed my mind.
I prayed for guidance
and learned to trust myself.
I prayed for happiness
and realized I am not my ego.
I prayed for peace
and learned to accept others unconditionally.
I prayed for abundance
and realized my doubt kept it out.
I prayed for wealth
and realized it is my health.
I prayed for a miracle
and realized I am the miracle.
I prayed for a soul mate
and realized I am the One.
I prayed for love
and realized it is always knocking,
but I have to allow it .
Jewel Of Rumi (Alias ….drj)
December 30, 2022 @ 1:01 pm
Happy New Year
December 30, 2022 @ 12:20 pm
The universe has your back always
June 18, 2019 @ 12:28 pm
Pevernthri pillay said to me that u have a daughter from Krizni…..I know that it’s none of my business but if it’s not true is it right for her to make stories about u and a married woman? She should be stopped. She said when ur daughter met an accident you raced and went to kriznis rescue and lucky I never get close to u cos someone in Durban told her something about u and me that could of happened but never materialize cos u r hung up on Krizni and ur daughter. Just want u to know that I respect u so obviously look up to you and don’t think it’s right for her to say anything about u regardless if true or otherwise
June 18, 2019 @ 12:23 pm
Our friendship is sealed with the Word of God and is indestructible.
God is the author and finisher of our fate and beyond our comprehension.
August 19, 2013 @ 4:12 pm
To Debayy’
Because with out God you wouldn’t be here.
And jackie….God has answered my prayers many times over. Being a widow for 14 years God saw I need good man in my life. And he sent me the most wonderful man. We are now together in Gods sight.
May 23, 2012 @ 6:30 pm
Life would be “NOTHING” without “GOD”!! I certainly need him to guide me in my everyday life! Praise the LORD!!!!
September 2, 2011 @ 12:22 am
Our friendship is sealed with the Word of God and is indestructible.
God is the author and finisher of our fate and beyond our comprehension.
November 25, 2009 @ 7:51 pm
WTF why does everything have to do with “god”?
November 18, 2009 @ 1:53 am
this is a wonderful poem it says alot, my love for ssgt m.Wells this is what l wanted to share with you a love so beautiful and magical and true, to our lfe together here on earth and allways through out eternity, l love you so very much my heart is so fill with love for you,cant wait for you to get back home, my today yesterday and my tommorrow is to be with you and love you a part of me is with you now and everyday when you are away, love Pocahantas
November 5, 2009 @ 9:26 am
TO MY BEAUTIFUL HUBBY YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE A PLACE IN MY HEART .OUR LOVE WILL LAST FOREVER WE WERE BROUGHT TOGETHER BY GOD.WHEN WE BOTH NEEDED SOMEONE .LIFE IS GREAT .LOVE YOU ( LAVERNE) (KELVIN SMITH MY HUBBY)
November 4, 2009 @ 7:52 am
u are our everything we say ,we thank u God and will always be there for us .we love u .
November 4, 2009 @ 7:49 am
Sally Ann Evans you will always be part of my heart,love always and forever yours Ilove you XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
November 3, 2009 @ 7:51 pm
Thanks so much for your love and care.This is a wonderful word to keep in my heart.
August 30, 2009 @ 9:45 pm
got your card today sometimes the need to know there is someone who understands is out there and knows the pain of losing someone and I donot have to pretend
August 30, 2009 @ 2:02 pm
yes shiela…. I understand and emapthetic about ur pain…
drunken driving is the cause for vehicle homicide.. it seems like we can do anything to undo or reverse accidents … but its beyond our power to change fate…
Lost my own brother in an accident..but be watchful you dear ones..on the roads…dont want to be playing under the vehicles on fast lanes…
August 30, 2009 @ 12:42 pm
MY HEART IS AS TENDER AS YOURS. THE PAIN WON’T GO AWAY ,BUT THE LOVE WILL ALWAYS BE THERE.
SURVIORS OF MURDER AND VEHICULAR HOMICIDE
August 29, 2009 @ 1:10 am
Just the exact words that my lover can find inside my heart. . . I know it takes time to put things in the right place but your love just make me whole.
August 28, 2009 @ 11:03 pm
Louisa how can i ever say thank you for being by my side through it all, you have been a source of strength to me, words cannot express my gratitude, you will forever be loved, the boys and i are bless to have you in our lives, thank you for everything.
August 28, 2009 @ 1:19 pm
to my children: you are my future and you are my pride and joy…remember me in the good times and in the bad…..we will rise together as a family to reunite again untill then you are my life and my dreams of a better tommorrow….i miss you and will see you real soon…..all my love and blessing come your way and remember you are loved by all who know you and care for you.You are not Alone anymore…
Love
(mom) Ms. Valerie
August 28, 2009 @ 6:59 am
wow! this fantabulous
August 27, 2009 @ 7:24 pm
My lovely Merle I am sending you this card because it has all words I’d like to say. You know:
But no matter what the future holds
You’ll still be in my heart.
Because I love you! Yours Tereza
August 27, 2009 @ 4:47 pm
thank you my dear for such heartfelt sentiments. You too are always in my heart and my soul.
Love, Godfrey
August 27, 2009 @ 10:57 am
This is very beautiful my friend!
August 27, 2009 @ 9:30 am
i like this card
August 27, 2009 @ 9:30 am
Yes…., you are still in my heart until now…..
June 6, 2009 @ 9:57 am
always remember you will always in my heart, no matter what happen to use . i still love you…forever,
June 6, 2009 @ 9:54 am
just always remember i always here for you no matter what happened
May 26, 2009 @ 8:30 am
Such wonderful words….May God always let you remain in my heart
May 8, 2009 @ 2:36 am
hello sweetheart,
sending u some love poem that comes into my deepest heart just for u only my love n ,,,,,,n hope u will keep it n ur heart too,,,,,,,,,,,GOD BLESS U
Is frm me eddy to u
love
Augustina
April 24, 2009 @ 10:04 am
hello sweetheart,
sending u some love poem that comes into my deepest heart just for u only my love n ,,,,,,n hope u will keep it n ur heart too,,,,,,,,,,,GOD BLESS U
love
karren
April 23, 2009 @ 12:12 pm
Chi i so love u somuch,that i cannot compare the luv
i have for u with one another u are really a friend.
you the best of all.
God bless u
I sent u this love flower to make uo ur day.
April 22, 2009 @ 4:52 pm
Thank you so much for the lovely poem on friendship. I feel the same way. I truly believe God brought us together with Dusty’s help. He was the Angel Unaware working for the Master. Thenk you D
usty, I wish I had known you but feel somehow that we have met along the way. I love your wife. Please keep tabs on her from above. Shirley
April 22, 2009 @ 10:13 am
Friendship isn’t about who you have known the longest.
…but about who came and never left your side.
That is you dear friend. I love you.
Be Blessed and be a blessing to others. May God give you great peace, joy and fill you with His Love,
Barbara